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chrism52
December 8th, 2010, 05:02 AM
Well I saw Beth (my girl friend) on Sunday to ask her to come to grans funeral, unfortunatly, she had babysitting to do and she didn't know her aswell as I thought, she still offered her sorrow.
I learned that her grandad died really close to Christmas, then when it came Beth didn't really feel excited, the only thing that would've made her happy is if her grandad gave her his present. :( I felt kind of sorry for her, even though it happend years ago.
Anyways, we had the best talk in ages spending an hour just talking about how we were doing and joking around. :D (she still has that cute giggle) When I went to go, she asked "Are you ok?" with a bit of concern in her voice, then she gave me a hug. :wub:

What I'm asking is could this be a hint? :what: (I'm not so good with picking up on flirting :whoops:)

Number02
December 8th, 2010, 11:55 AM
It depends entirely on the girl, man.

Because she's a friend, though, I'd just take that as a friend who cares about you.. Wait and see how everything goes. Later on, when the dust has settled, you can focus on looking for signs.

Remember though, there is always an element of risk that you have to be willing to take, and one misjudgement could cost you a friend. And from the sounds of it, a good friend too.

Oh, and try not to get your hopes up. Keep calm, and observe. Like I said, chances are she just cares about you as a friend, but if you can make a healthy relationship out of this, then by all means, go ahead. Good luck!

IAMWILL
December 9th, 2010, 01:42 AM
It sounds to me like she is worried about you because your grandma just died.
And even though that's obvious, there is some very good news.
The fact that she cares enough about you to ask you "are you ok" which I have no doubt in my mind stems from your gma passing away and her previous experiences means you and her have something that you can connect about that not many other people have. It's sorrowful, yes, but extremely useful. If you get into another deep conversation with her bring the topic of your gma up and just say you miss her, and she might come out about her grandpa. That is when you can really connect with her, because nothing to girls matters most than having someone that will listen to their every word.