Help?

[Theone15]

I dont know what to do, I have a crush on my best friend but I don't know if he is gay or bi aswell but I'm worried if he will "dissown" me, should I tell im or not?

[nick]

Take it very slowly.
If you get a chance, talk about gay people generally, see if he is sympathetic or homophobic.
If he seems open, not homophobic, then you can think about coming out to him, but not saying you fancy him at the same time.
Its just one step at a time, see how things go.
Your ideal result that he says he feels the same for you is unlikely, so be prepared for that, but if you dont ask you wont know.

[Theone15]

He knows I'm Bisexual but I have a idea on how to tell him, he normally asks me to walk to his home with him as he gets lonely on the way home, so I might say yes and gradually get to the point of telling him

[mjj1213]

Jes ask him. I lik 2 of my friends dat kno im bi& day cool wit it but it was kinda hard telling dem but they said it won't change anything between us. So jes go 4 it

[Sosaku]

Jes ask him. I lik 2 of my friends dat kno im bi& day cool wit it but it was kinda hard telling dem but they said it won't change anything between us. So jes go 4 it


i have to disagree with this, i told a friend i, at one time had a crush on him, and he was homophobic. but he changed his number but before he did everything he said was about him being straight. even tho i didnt have a crush on him anymore....(back to helping lol) but since he knows ur bi, and still walks with you, there seems to be some good felings mutually. If you have any joke like conversations about people you like, just put his name in there to see his reaction, if he reacts negatively, laugh and reassure him that you dont, i may hurt to see the reaction but i've done it this way before too...and kept the guy as my friend. I really hope i helped.

[Theone15]

Well I told him on the way back to his house turns out he doesn't feel the same way about me but we are still friends :)

[Aless1225]

I hav myself the same problem