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eatfood
December 7th, 2010, 05:01 PM
so i dont think this is right what my friend is doing, but before i do somthing thought id ask you guys. he told me instead of mastrabateing to porn he goes on nudist website and beats off to the girls that look his age. is this ok? or could he become a pedophile from it? what do you think????:0

nick
December 7th, 2010, 05:05 PM
Well, when ever some one posts about "a friend" I assume that they are really talking about themself.

If "your friend" is looking at people of his own age I dont see how that can be counted as pedo. Pedo really means being attracted to people much younger than yourself.

eatfood
December 7th, 2010, 05:15 PM
no im not talking about myself...i kinda think thats fucked up tho what hes doing

eatfood
December 7th, 2010, 05:18 PM
it it was about me i woulda said so i think shit like that isnt cool

nick
December 7th, 2010, 05:20 PM
no im not talking about myself...i kinda think thats fucked up tho what hes doing
Fair enough, it wouldnt matter to me, people should be open and honest on here, its the only way to get the best advice.

Like I said before then, I think you are being hard on him. Being attracted to people of your own age is perfectly normal.

adam1995
December 7th, 2010, 05:36 PM
Pedophilia means an adult having sex with a child. What you're describing is a kid who is attracted to people who are or appear to be his age. That's actually pretty normal.

junkymcjunkpants
December 7th, 2010, 07:55 PM
it would be one thing if he was like 30 and masturbating to kids but if hes around the same age i wouldn't worry about it he is attracted to girls his own age. But if you believe thats is wrong thats what you believe but i wouldn't lose any sleep over it

spfreak
December 7th, 2010, 08:02 PM
No, if it's for people his own age, then there is nothing wrong with it.

Joshuaharris
December 7th, 2010, 09:30 PM
Im 14 and i go to sites like that. i didnt go looking for those pics i was just curious about nudist and kinda interested in it. but then i saw people who were my age and i couldnt help but hooked. it gets annoying alwasy watching porn of people that are like 10 years older then you. much more normal to jack off to someone your age.

CBTurner
December 7th, 2010, 11:02 PM
A pedophile is an adult who finds sexual pleasure in children.

Now he is not weird, it's like a 20 year old being attracted to a 20 year old. A lot of people have sexual fantisies about people the same age as them.

Aless1225
December 8th, 2010, 06:40 PM
Not if their his age that's just called porn I guess

tyler007
December 8th, 2010, 07:27 PM
NO i dont think i would say anything to him about it. As long as the she about his age, its pretty cool. Have you ever see the nudist web site, are you sure hes looking at girls, there are alot of women and guys there too, but not so many boys. And i went and checked on out, just now, not really sure i could jo too it.
:judge: BUT leave your friend alone, and dont asy anything unless he askis you to jerk off with him while looking at it. :judge:

SwimTech
December 9th, 2010, 01:17 AM
I wouldn't say anything about it, but its a gray area. Nudist photos are taken non-sexually, and with the purpose of spreading the idea of nudism, and creating memories, just like a normal picture. So, its not porn, it would be like looking up pics of people he finds hot and masturbating to those. However, he is not a pedophile, because a pedophile is an adult, or someone who is several years older to, who is sexually attracted to children.