sleepover rules

[richboypoor]

So I've been invited to this sleepover with my friends. I just wanted to know what the rules are and what usually happens.

Is there nakedness/touching....more:eek: ?
What am I supposed to behave like?

[Donkey]

:lol: If there's no nakedness and touching, it ain't a sleepover! Lol dude, not everyone gets touchy feely at sleepovers it's just usually the time when it happens. Don't try to make a move because it might just freak him out. Be chilled, if it leads to anything then it leads to something - there are no rules. You're not supposed to behave like anything, except normal.

[nick]

You should assume that your friend just wants your company and does not expect to see you naked or to have any sexual activity with you. Dont expect it to be an invitation for mutual masturbation or anything else.

[Curtis E]

just be cool and ask him what he sleeps in just say you sleep naked

[Philleeep]

Only do something if he does it first dont make the first move

[Joshuaharris]

yeah. it really depneds on your friend, what hes into and how good friends you are. The only reason people talk about doing stuff like that during a sleepover is just cause you are bound to be spending a lot of time with them late at night and parents are usually asleep so doing stuff like that is natural. ive been to sleepovers where we have done stuff and sleepovers where we didnt. so it jusst depens.

[Skippy4118]

usually nothing happens to me.... certain rules are just personal preferences i guess...

[ajsdlkfjaois]

Let your friend take the lead. If nothing happens then proceed as normal watch a movie

[adam1995]

Wow... You all have really different sleepovers then me lol... We usually play video games, play poker and maybe watch some porn. Why would you assume that a sleepover was an invitation to something sexual?

[willrod]

So I've been invited to this sleepover with my friends. I just wanted to know what the rules are and what usually happens.

Is there nakedness/touching....more:eek: ?
What am I supposed to behave like?

LOL Just act like you normally do around your friends. Sleepovers don't necessarily have to include nakedness/touching/etc but I suppose it can happen. Usually at a sleepover, you just hang out, maybe watch movies, chat, etc. Now, I'm not going to lie, I've been to a couple sleepovers where stuff happened, but a few where nothing did. The possibility of stuff happening depends on how comfortable you and your friends are about that kind of stuff. Just hang out, relax, and have a good time.

[Donkey]

Wow... You all have really different sleepovers then me lol... We usually play video games, play poker and maybe watch some porn. Why would you assume that a sleepover was an invitation to something sexual?
You just said that you watch porn at sleepovers then pondered about the idea of doing something sexual as if it were abnormal.

[adam1995]

You just said that you watch porn at sleepovers then pondered about the idea of doing something sexual as if it were abnormal.

I didn't say it was abnormal, just that it never happened at a sleepover that I've been to. Also, watching porn does not (necessarily) equal sexual activity/touching (at least touching other people lol

[Donkey]

I didn't say it was abnormal, just that it never happened at a sleepover that I've been to. Also, watching porn does not (necessarily) equal sexual activity/touching (at least touching other people lol
I would consider mutual masturbation to be a sexual activity, and one that is probably most common at sleepovers.

[wiip]

yeah just hang out- act like your just round at your mates as normal. maybe when all are in bed and there's a little chat, just start asking how he feels about sexual things, you know; "any girls you like?" "why do you like her?" "What do you like in a girl?" "what would you want a girl to do to you?" "have you ever tossed off?" see how it gets gradually more sexual as it progresses, until you are ready for whatever you want to happen. maybe play truth or dare!

[Philleeep]

damn the most sexual thing that's ever gone on at my sleepovers is we fought in melted chocolate in underwear and a t-shirt

[Dimitri]

It really just depends

[ATown]

My last sleepover.. Me and my friend got freaky while the others were just chillin. LOL

[nick]

I want a sleepover with Jon, lol, but honestly for most people it means watch a dvd together, get ready for bed (keeping underwear on), sleep.

[CBTurner]

:lol: If there's no nakedness and touching, it ain't a sleepover! Lol dude, not everyone gets touchy feely at sleepovers it's just usually the time when it happens. Don't try to make a move because it might just freak him out. Be chilled, if it leads to anything then it leads to something - there are no rules. You're not supposed to behave like anything, except normal.

This is not true. Sleeping at your friends's house (or any place) does not have to be sexual.

[closed]

Lol, not every porn movie is the reflection of reallity :) as long as you won't start any touchin\nakedness then probably it won't happen. anyway, if something that you don't like happens - you can stop it. Don't do something you don't want!

[Brandon K]

just ask what he wants to do

[Silentkink]

Just ask him what the rules are, and if you do not feel safe about something tell him, and I am sure he will listen and respect you.

[Cryofthewolf]

It all depends on you and the friend. I have had sleepovers where we just play video games and such and I have had sleepovers where we have done things. Whatever you and your friend want to do and are mutually ok with doing.

Whatever it is, just have fun and go with the flow. Don't think about it too much. You will have fun. =-)

[richboypoor]

Wow... You all have really different sleepovers then me lol... We usually play video games, play poker and maybe watch some porn. Why would you assume that a sleepover was an invitation to something sexual?

I thought that's what a "sleepover" was...Well that's what people usually talk about on here anyway

[howyoudoin93]

I don't really have any rules for sleepovers...its just kinda organic. What ever happens happens

[RadioPlayer]

If you want to be naked, then just go to bed naked and see if your friend follows. If you want to fool around with him, just start jacking off yourself and see where it goes from there.

[boosterboy]

don't make the first move, it will make you look like a creep

[tyler007]

I think you have gotten alot of good advice, here. As for me it just depends on whos sleeping over, with most of friends its movies, and video games, and we all were boxers and sleep my bed or some stay on the couch or bloew bed in our play/tv room.
But my one friend, when he stays over alone we sleep naked and fool around.
My advices to you if it has not happened yet is to were boxer, and just kind of follow your freinds lead, IF YOU WANT TO. You should have fun and see were it gos. But i would not start anything..

[Voodoo]

Well, some people have sex for the first time at a sleep over or get naked infront of friends and or the girl/boy they like as a result of truth or dare. But there are no rules, what ever happens goes.

[CaliKiDD]

lmao soo umm i usually i run around naked lol :) then they join or i pants someone :) but they start the touching

[sthomas]

damn the most sexual thing that's ever gone on at my sleepovers is we fought in melted chocolate in underwear and a t-shirt
:eek:

But OP, I agree with most comments here. Don't make the first move but be prepared in case someone else does. Oh, and have fun!

[teenageapplelover]

Go with the flow. Have fun with your friends. I've never had a sleepover become explicitly sexual, but a lot of sleepovers have times when pants are gonna be off. If you are uncomfortable, stop. Don't make anything sexual, you'll just be called a perv.

[walpurgusknight]

have you forreal never had a sleep over?
it's watching movies, eating, playing video games, talking about girls, watching porn and sometimes jacking off. when I was younger me and friends would jack off to the porn together but now cause we're older whenever we watch porn we just make fun of people or use the bathr

[TheTrueKing]

it depends on who youre frends are if that kind of stuff would happen but remember in the end whatever you do its always your choice

[hollisterboi95]

Ya there are really no specific rules and so just he yourself if anything ,u don't want to happen, happens then just say that ur not comfortable with it.

[Nilnoc]

Just go with the flow man, if you don't like it, swim to shore.

[teenageapplelover]

Just go with the flow man, if you don't like it, swim to shore.

Dang, why didnt I say that? Such a great analogy...

[ITSGUCCITIME]

:lol: If there's no nakedness and touching, it ain't a sleepover! Lol dude, not everyone gets touchy feely at sleepovers it's just usually the time when it happens. Don't try to make a move because it might just freak him out. Be chilled, if it leads to anything then it leads to something - there are no rules. You're not supposed to behave like anything, except normal.

That's true!!!

[Orpheus]

Wow... You all have really different sleepovers then me lol... We usually play video games, play poker and maybe watch some porn. Why would you assume that a sleepover was an invitation to something sexual?

Same here. I've never gone to a lot of sleepovers, but in my limited experience the guys usually wear underwear to sleep. A couple of times there was nudity when we played strip poker and the loser has to do whatever we ask within the house. One time in a game someone dared me to show my dick so I pulled it out and waved it around a bit. I'm not very inhibited at all and so everyone thought it was cool. Mostly it's not really sexual tho.

[John Marston]

Be yourself. Don't do anything remotely sexual unless he acts first. Pretty basic and a lot like what anyone else has said. Really, there ain't any rules at all. Besides the average Live in the Moment (act now and act accordingly to the situation).

[Hokage]

Depends on how close you are to the person