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carea
December 6th, 2010, 07:23 AM
i like my friend she is a seinor in highschool and im a sophmore but im not sure what to do should i tell her or should i just stay friends?
Azunite
December 6th, 2010, 08:24 AM
Stay friends, but act as if you were her best friend or something.
If she is older than you, she needs to love you, thats your only chance
Clawhammer
December 6th, 2010, 10:31 AM
Depends. How much are you willing to risk? You might as well tell her if there's a good chance to. Don't see how it would ruin anything unless she seriously overreacts.
Lasky
December 6th, 2010, 04:14 PM
i like my friend she is a seinor in highschool and im a sophmore but im not sure what to do should i tell her or should i just stay friends?

Well this is tough. If you tell her, she may start to feel uncomfortable around you. But on the other hand, you may lose the chance when she graduates. You must choose, and good luck
Fact
December 6th, 2010, 06:48 PM
15 - 18 is a very bad age gap for you right now. She has so much more freedom within her life than you do.

If I were you, I wouldn't pursue my feelings. You wouldn't want to spoil your friendship by having an awkward, intimate relationship.
carea
December 8th, 2010, 07:38 PM
thank you for the advice everyone
dmeek7
December 8th, 2010, 10:56 PM
Stay friends, but act as if you were her best friend or something.
If she is older than you, she needs to love you, thats your only chance

I respectfully disagree with you PrinceOfMadness. Being friends with a girl usually doesn't get you to be with her. I have posted on just about 5 different threads talking about the "friend zone". You don't want to be in the friend zone with a girl if you want to be with her. Truth is, a girl doesn't need a guy as a friend AND a boyfriend. She's got girlfriends to talk about stuff she would talk to a best friend about. Be less of a friend and more of a guy she talks to. I don't really know how to explain that better at the moment, but I have talked to lots of girls about this. They usually agree with this.

Another tip is to find a common ground with her. Find a few things you two both are interested in, and you both have in common.
carea
December 10th, 2010, 04:39 AM
well we have a few things in common