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ddc2003
December 5th, 2010, 09:17 PM
Ok so alot of my friends come to me for advice about anything. Most of it is about relationships. I always encourage them to do what they want to and kind of help push them to do it, like if they want to ask a girl out I somehow get him to ask her.
But the problem I think I have where it comes to myself is I think too much. For example, I like a few girls. One girl is in my math class. I would ask her out, but if she says no then math will be very awkward. Or a better example, I like this girl I have been friends with for a while. She used to like me but I'm not sure anymore. I kinda blew my chance like 2 years ago. Anyway, I'm friendly with her ex and I work with her sister(who doesnt like me much) So I would ask her out but I think that if it works out I'll be stuck around her sister who doesn't like me and if she says no it will ruin my work life. I think I'm exaggerating but still. Im too nervous. I dont have too much self confidence. I've had 1 real girlfriend and it was weird, like almost awkward because we mostly talked through text. I dont want something like that again. I want someone to go to prom with.

Thanks for reading!

Sogeking
December 5th, 2010, 10:22 PM
Wow this is a case of deja vu.:confused:. I know what you mean and trust me I, coincidently went through the same thing. I honestly dont know what to say, just go for it I guess. Here's an article to help you out with that (http://www.wikihow.com/Ask-a-Girl-Out)

ddc2003
December 5th, 2010, 10:40 PM
Might sound kinda silly but I think I'm going to make a 2 week plan. Maybe make it a one week plan if I get the courage. I'll slowly start to compliment her more and more every day until I think she likes me. Lol Might work?

Sogeking
December 5th, 2010, 10:46 PM
Sure, I guess, just dont overdue it and pester her like a mosquito. You'll only achieve the opposite of what you're trying to accomplish.