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Bath
December 5th, 2010, 08:56 AM
So, I was being a sneaky little bitch and looked through my mom's texts. I know, I know, that's wrong, but don't be concerned about that. I know it's not right but that's not the reason I'm venting right now. I saw the normal texts from and to her boyfriend.. "I love u baby." "baby u are amazing" and similar shit.

Then, I saw her text my dad about the $400 for child support. My dad replied "The company is closing down.. I can give you $200, I'm doing the best I can Barb.. but Im going to be living in a cardboard box next week and I'm really fucking scared."

So, my mom tells her boyfriend this. and what does he say?
"I think he's on drugs again. He deserves to be living in a cardboard box."

My mom agrees.

Um, excuse me Mr.Boyfriend?? last time I checked, youve never even MET my dad, and you're talking shit?? My dad is doing the best he can, yes, he screwed up in the past. Yes, he put drugs first instead of family and made my mom leave. But, sir, you don't KNOW him. You know the STORIES. Did mom tell you how how he went to rehab, how he loves me and my brother so much, how he takes us every other weekend even with his hectic schedule?

How he's better now?
Wow. I don't know. Just needed to vent. What should I do, though? I can't tell him off cause he'll use the argument of me invading privacy.

Maybe I shouldn't do anything, I don't know.

Donkey
December 5th, 2010, 09:23 AM
You shouldn't do anything, just support your dad. Sometimes people say things behind peoples backs, and make misconceptions - it's frustrating but acting upon it can only make it worse.