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HeroesAndCons
December 3rd, 2010, 05:42 PM
i burned myself with salt and ice
my dad may need to go to the hospital
i had a shit day at school
my grades are poor
i feel ugly and fat
i am a dumbass


fuck

Njathind
December 3rd, 2010, 06:03 PM
You ARE NOT ugly and fat and I'm sure your not a dumbass, this is gonna sound kinda odd but i'm glad you used salt and ice instead of a blade. I'm sorry to hear about you dad, is it anything seriouse?

You dont need not worry too much about the burn, you did well not to cut. Just remember everything will start to get better soon. If you wanna chat about school or anything for that matter just PM me.

MadManWithaBox
December 3rd, 2010, 06:06 PM
Come on ichigo. You are not fat, you are not a dumbass. You may need to go the hospital, but thats ok. You have a lost a battle, but you have not lost the war. You only lose when you give up. So get up, and keep on fucking going, you hear me?

Bath
December 3rd, 2010, 06:09 PM
You're worth so much more. Even though it seems to be dark and terrible now, you will overcome this, I promise you(:

HeroesAndCons
December 3rd, 2010, 07:11 PM
my daddys knee is blown up like a baloon it is swollen badly
he just came home too

he may need to go back
im scared

Kaius
December 3rd, 2010, 08:48 PM
I know its not easy to have a parent go into hospital, but you've just got to remember, while they're there they're in the best place possible and the staff will do everything they can to help. School and grades are always difficult to keep steady when theres a lot going on in your home life. As Matthew said, the most important thing at the moment is picking yourself up and carrying on, you'll never beat it unless you do. If you need anyone to talk or or just to listen i'll always be happy to. Feel free to send me a pm or email whenever you feel you need to.

georgiamay
December 4th, 2010, 04:39 AM
like the others have said, you're worth so much more! I don't want to be a broken record, but you're not ugly, fat, or a dumbass.

Also, salt and ice burns can turn really nasty, make sure you look after it properly. The can get infected quite quickly.

Mike321
December 4th, 2010, 01:49 PM
I'm only going to repeat what the others have said, you are not ugly or fat, and we all have really shit days and school grades are alot of hard work, dont be too hard on yourself
I'm sorry to hear about your dad, he will be in safe hands at the hospital though, they'll look after him.
Try and focus on picking yourself back up now and carrying on, you can do it

Charleigh
December 4th, 2010, 03:21 PM
how can salt and ice burn you?!

HeroesAndCons
December 4th, 2010, 04:49 PM
how can salt and ice burn you?!

salt and ice cause a chem reaction and it "frostbites" your skin and it freexes the water of ur tissue and it burns too


but my dad is pretty ok now so i guess thats one thing to get off my stress
and thanks for reassuring im not fat and ugly

anamcara
December 5th, 2010, 09:32 AM
hey, again repeating what you must have heard a thousand times before, you are not ugly and your not fat, and your not a dumbass, i started A levels in september but missed a lot of the basics because my mum died on my birthday, so i got all u's in my exams, about 3 weeks after my mum passed away my bf (at the time) dragged me down the street and tried to abduct me, he then sent me treatening texts, the other day i got a death threat, i self harm, but i have done for a few years, but seriously i know you dont feel like it but it can only get better :) xx

Charleigh
December 5th, 2010, 09:55 AM
hey, again repeating what you must have heard a thousand times before, you are not ugly and your not fat, and your not a dumbass, i started A levels in september but missed a lot of the basics because my mum died on my birthday, so i got all u's in my exams, about 3 weeks after my mum passed away my bf (at the time) dragged me down the street and tried to abduct me, he then sent me treatening texts, the other day i got a death threat, i self harm, but i have done for a few years, but seriously i know you dont feel like it but it can only get better :) xx

couldnt you of sent that to her personally?
you just jacked her spotlight ....

Fiction
December 5th, 2010, 12:30 PM
couldnt you of sent that to her personally?
you just jacked her spotlight ....

I don't see any problem with it. She told her story for a reason, to show that however bad it gets it can get better. Please don't cause an arguement.

anamcara
December 8th, 2010, 09:39 AM
sorry, i dont want to cause any problems or 'jack anyones spotlight' as you put it. that was definately not my intention, i was merely trying to show that no matter how bad things get stopping is possible, i thought my own experience could help explain that better. again im sorry if i offended anyone xx

HeroesAndCons
December 8th, 2010, 11:18 AM
sorry, i dont want to cause any problems or 'jack anyones spotlight' as you put it. that was definately not my intention, i was merely trying to show that no matter how bad things get stopping is possible, i thought my own experience could help explain that better. again im sorry if i offended anyone xx

oh psht u didnt offend me

anamcara
December 8th, 2010, 12:08 PM
lol thanks, but remember, if you ever want to talk or just chat to someone that could give the mad hatter a run for his money, or just want someone to cheer you up and to laugh at, im your girl lol :) xx

Harley Quinn
December 8th, 2010, 12:22 PM
i burned myself with salt and ice
I have done that before, and it's probably one of the most horrible ways to self harm. I still have a scar on my wrist from ages ago when i did it, and it's really prone to infection if you do use that method of self harm. I advise highly against it.

my dad may need to go to the hospital
Knowing that a parent is like that will worry you and the best thing to do is stay strong. It's going to hard, and i won't lie to you, you will feel like complete and utter shit, but that doesn't mean it won't get better, because trust me, it does and one day, no matter how far away that is, you'll see that for yourself.

i had a shit day at school
Don't let that affect you like this, things will get better. Maybe another day will be better, and that day something happened. Doesn't mean that that's going to happen again. Remember, nothing is worth putting your body, or yourself through the pain.