My best friend is going out with my ex girlfriend!

[runner4life]

Ok, so I have dated this girl, we broke up. I am still really attached to her and my friend knows that! However today my best friend, without even talking to me, asked her to our dance (tonight) Im livid. What should I do? I still love this girl.

THANKS!! :what:

[dmeek7]

I have basicly the same problem. I have dated this girl like three times because we have a kind of a weird relationship and she has this problem of not being able to make up her mind on who she likes, but anyways.....My best friend since third grade (im in 11th now) decides he wants to ask her out when me and her are broken up. I was absoultely crushed, and I called her up and asked her if she liked him, and she told me she did, and I asked her not to say yes to him b/c of all the girls he has hurt (he's a major player and cheats on girls he dates) and i didnt want her to get hurt by him, but she goes and dates him anyways.....this screwed up my life b/c i absolutely loved her, but then one night when im laying down to go to bed, i got to thinking. I came up with the conclusion, that i shouldn't care if they are dating, because there are lots of other girls that are better than her, so basically i told myself, "hey. you need to get over her b/c she might not be worth it"..

what im saying is that you should maybe give it a try to get over her. Get out and meet some new girls. my best friend betrayed me, but i forgave him. so also just dont let that ONE girl ruin your friendship with your friend. also, you could be in love. If you really love the girl, let her be happy.

(sorry this was such a long reply, but it was the best thing i could think of to get the point across. I hoped this helped)

[Amnesiac]

Ok, so I have dated this girl, we broke up. I am still really attached to her and my friend knows that! However today my best friend, without even talking to me, asked her to our dance (tonight) Im livid. What should I do? I still love this girl.

Well, I'm sorry, but she's not your girlfriend anymore. She's free to go out with other guys, and your best friend is free to ask someone else. I'm sorry, but what can you do?

If you're really that jealous, just talk to him about it.

[Black Eight]

Wow. Bros before hoes. That was really mean of your friend to do that. If he's a true friend he would call of the date if you asked.