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DreamSeeker
December 3rd, 2010, 02:00 PM
So yesterday me friend texted me with one of those texts saying tell me the number I am, the text is below just to show you my point.

"WHAT WOULD YOU RATE ME?

1. a ****
2. Your a Bate
3. I'd marry u
4. Sweet
5. Beautiful
6. Talkative
7. Hot
8. Fit
9. Funny
10. Moody
11. (Can't say)
12. I wish u were mine

- Pick a number and send it back, it's no joke so be honest please!"

After a lot of discussion on them she told me that the thought I was 12, and after discussion she revealed she 'Likes' me and was blushing. And I said I feel the same. But today at school in the morning the said "What happened last night, stays last night". And this did not get mentioned at all..

I really want to discuss it with her and see if she wants a relationship but don't know how to approach it as I may end up making a huge mistake and ruining our friendship or something else... I am confused :/

bmxkid313
December 3rd, 2010, 03:46 PM
she likes you but she doesnt want anybody to know

Harley Quinn
December 4th, 2010, 09:25 AM
It's hard when things like that happen, and it can make you feel like shit. Best thing to do, is try texting her, or writing a note or something. She said she wants you to be hers, she may have been joking but again you don't know unless you can get her to talk to you, or you talking to her. She may be embarrassed or something, or doesn't want anyone to know.

Donkey
December 4th, 2010, 09:45 AM
She is probably embarrassed, but if she likes you, go ahead. You have nothing to lose. If you approach it lightly and calmly, it won't ruin your friendship. You'll be able to compromise. But dude I think if you go for it you could probably get into a relationship with her, if you can't talk to her in real life try texting her.

dmeek7
December 4th, 2010, 02:27 PM
It sounds like maybe she likes you but doesnt want people to know. With women, there are a thousand things it could be

DreamSeeker
December 4th, 2010, 07:33 PM
Thanks guys, I finally got the courage to ask her out. And she said Yes :D I'm so happy, but now can you guys please give me advice on how to go ahead in the relationship. As it's going slow at first, none of us have said anything related to Love yet... How can I approach it to move on... I'm gonna be scared at even holding her hand.

Donkey
December 5th, 2010, 05:28 AM
Chill, let it play it's way through, go with the flow and all that jazz. Don't get worked up and stressed out, it will make you worse company :P

Honey_Honey
December 22nd, 2010, 07:51 PM
It sounds like this girl doesn't really know what to do! She's being safe by telling you to leave her be. In order to have a relationship you need to take risks which might indicate you might be better off with someone else or it might indicate that she wants to be chased or that she doesn't want people knowing. It's up to you, I'd go for it! Just remember she won't think your stupid and if she does she definitely isn't worth it!