goofball
December 3rd, 2010, 10:54 AM
Hi all. Don't want to make this sound really depressing. Just straight to the point and honest.
I am a very shy person and don't speak much. Basically the only interactions I have with people I don't know is through sport. And because of pressures, I rarely play sport.
I had a couple of friends from different "groups" in the school and wanted to bring them together to make a group of our own so I wasn't alone alot of the time. It finally happened.
So everything was good. I finally felt like I belonged to a group after 3 horrible years of high-school alone. We started going places and everyone became tighter.
As everyone became closer friends, I seemed to slowly drift away or be excluded from the group I HAD STARTED. As I said, I'm quite shy and don't talk much. So...my two best friends - didn't know each other until I introduced them. They then became good-ish frineds. But not best of friends. So one was having a sleepover, and asked the other one if they wanted to go. Obviously said "yes". And they invited some others but not me. Several more of these events occur over the next few months.
I feel so left out and ignored. As if, my group doesn't value or even see me anymore. I am wondering if I should move on (which would end up in failure because I am shy beyond belief) or if I should tell what I think is going on or ask them why they've been acting like this, and excluding me.
I'm lost, and help would be appreciated.
Sorry it's really long! (tldr) ;) thanks
I am a very shy person and don't speak much. Basically the only interactions I have with people I don't know is through sport. And because of pressures, I rarely play sport.
I had a couple of friends from different "groups" in the school and wanted to bring them together to make a group of our own so I wasn't alone alot of the time. It finally happened.
So everything was good. I finally felt like I belonged to a group after 3 horrible years of high-school alone. We started going places and everyone became tighter.
As everyone became closer friends, I seemed to slowly drift away or be excluded from the group I HAD STARTED. As I said, I'm quite shy and don't talk much. So...my two best friends - didn't know each other until I introduced them. They then became good-ish frineds. But not best of friends. So one was having a sleepover, and asked the other one if they wanted to go. Obviously said "yes". And they invited some others but not me. Several more of these events occur over the next few months.
I feel so left out and ignored. As if, my group doesn't value or even see me anymore. I am wondering if I should move on (which would end up in failure because I am shy beyond belief) or if I should tell what I think is going on or ask them why they've been acting like this, and excluding me.
I'm lost, and help would be appreciated.
Sorry it's really long! (tldr) ;) thanks