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Skittlegasm
December 3rd, 2010, 01:17 AM
*Hey, I'm a (guy) freshman in highschool.
When I first walked in the doors of my new school to start of my freshman year, I had more confidence than I had ever had in my life. Everything went right for about a week untill my "so-called friend" ruined my chances with the most beatiful girl ive ever seen (she's the same age as me). she called out my name for me to wait for her because she wanted to walk with me down the hallway and right when he saw her talking to me, my dick for a friend runs up behind us and squeezes in-between us and interrupts what I was saying to her. She kinda just looked at me with a confused look and started talking with him instead.. (I know this probably doesnt sound big but when someone cokblocks you, after you told them you like the girl, I think anyone would be mad). I brushed it off my shoulders for a bit but after I saw them flirting I had enough. That should be me :(
This dude just wants her to like him so he can put the point across that he thinks he can get everything he wants. It's how it's always been.
Now, what's even worse is that I don't know what to say to her anymore. We didn't have a good first impression and I don't know what she likes or if she is even interested in starting a relationship. I always choke when i try to talk to her because i feel ashamed. I just regret not punching my "friend" square in the face.

When I see her in the hall she says hey and I say hi back and smile, but that's basically the only communication I've had with her.

I don't usually act like this. I felt something else with her while we were talking. I know this sounds ridiculous for a 15 year old to say but, she's almost like the perfect girl.


Thanks everyone. You can't imagine how much I appreciate your help.

Vkid
December 3rd, 2010, 01:39 AM
next time u say hi...ask her what she's doing for lunch or something...ask her to eat with you, or go somewhere during a spare period

if ur choking or having a hard timer coming up with something to say just tell her u get butterflies around her, lol i'm betting she'll find that really cute

Kaius
December 3rd, 2010, 09:01 PM
Don't worry, its perfectly normal - You're nervous! Have you got her number or maybe have her as a friend on facebook/msn? That would give you an easier route to communication with her without the worry of choking or your friend trying to get between you both all the time. It must be frustrating for him to be like that and to be honest I wouldn't consider him a real friend if that's how he treats you. As for not knowing about what she likes, you've just given yourself another thing you can talk about. If you see her in the hall don't just say hi and walk off, smile and ask how she is or what shes up to. If she asks how you are mention how upset you are with your friend about the fact he's being a jerk. If you don't know this girl very well you might not know how she really views this other guy, for all you know she could think the same as you do. If you need to talk at all feel free to pm me or email me at the address in my sig i'd be happy to listen.