Losing my V

[lightkun]

I think I'm about to but I really don't want to get attached. And I don't want her to get attached. Should I do it?

[Fiction]

Save it for someone special. :)

[alexpop]

Dnt wanna sound mean but mostly all ur post are should I do it like the one with ur friend that was offering u oral sex. Attention much?

Anyways

idk if feel you got the pants too have sex and be careful do it!

[loz4]

Wait till your ready, which is whenever you feel up to it, don't do it because everyone else might be getting some, they just fell into the same peer pressure hole that you may or may not enter. It's up to you.

[ShaneK]

Its best to wait for someone special. Not because you can do it.

[Vonn]

You're hesitating. I'd call it a no-go.

[OrangeBanana]

Everyone here has said it, wait a bit... :)

[Nancy Boy]

Its best to wait for someone special. Not because you can do it.

AGREED. Don't do it just because. It kinda ruined my previous relationship partly. :P

[nick]

If both of you feel ready for it, both want it, and both understand that its just sex with no strings attached then its your choice. If you find yourself lieing about being in love with her just to get laid then thats different.

[Guitarman]

You sound hesitant. This means you ar having second thoughts. I think then that you should just wait for someone to whom you dont have second thoughts about.

[OrangeBanana]

you sound hesitant. This means you ar having second thoughts. I think then that you should just wait for someone to whom you dont have second thoughts about.

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[Donkey]

Are you both comfortable with it? Are you both educated about contraception and sex in general? Will it effect your relationship in any other way? Do you see virginity as anything more than just a societal label?

[MisterAndrews]

If you "don't want her to become attached", having sex with her is the last thing you should do.

[Joshuaharris]

If you "don't want her to become attached", having sex with her is the last thing you should do.

totally agree. i never did it with a girl cause i dont think im ready but i made out with one and she became so attached to me it was driving me crazy. im sure it depends on the girl but i wouldnt do it unless you want her to becme attached.

[Scarface]

I think this goes more into Relationships and Dating :arrow:

[Amnesiac]

I think I'm about to but I really don't want to get attached. And I don't want her to get attached. Should I do it?

If you don't want to get attached, don't do it. I mean this in a very serious way. A close friend of mine lost his a few days ago — his girlfriend is sex-crazy and now she's telling everyone. Not a pretty situation, you have to be very careful.

[Continuum]

If you don't want to get attached, don't do it. I mean this in a very serious way. A close friend of mine lost his a few days ago — his girlfriend is sex-crazy and now she's telling everyone. Not a pretty situation, you have to be very careful.

What the fuck. I am up to shutting the girl up if that ever happens.

I vote no, saving it means a lot when the time comes.

[Amnesiac]

What the fuck. I am up to shutting the girl up if that ever happens.

The horrible thing is that he still won't break up with her. And he didn't use a condom.

You have to be fucking careful who you attach to.