i really hate the idea of this..

[hardcore-smile]

okaay, im dating this guy and have been for 3 years, and hes in grade 12 and im in grade 11.
latley hes been so rude to me and he's been talking to all these girls that i don't want him to talk to and he promises me he wont talk to them and he does anyways.

but he's cheated on me before alot. and hes having "the prom party" and i really don't want him to have it, and like every other week his story is different he's telling me "i'll tell everyone im not having it babe" and then the next week is "no im having it whats the big deal?" and i just really don't want him to have it, because im not allowed to go to it, and i don't trust him AT ALL, and he just told me that hes having it, and that i need to grow up i would like to know what i can say to him to make him not have it? and i really don't want replies like "you should let him have it, don't control him, or you should dump him if you don't trust him" im only interested in what i should say


give a hoot, don't pollute !

thanks guys, xoxo

[princedavis]

You have to suck it up and deal with it. Life isn't fair, and work isn't fun. People work for money because they need to survive, or else they would be homeless and starving. If you don't want to make any money then simply don't do it, it'll be your loss.

[Hiroka]

You have to suck it up and deal with it. Life isn't fair, and work isn't fun. People work for money because they need to survive, or else they would be homeless and starving. If you don't want to make any money then simply don't do it, it'll be your loss.

That was rude...

If I were in your situation, I would tell him how I feel and if he keeps on doing what I dont like, then I eventually would break up with him.
Dont let yourself be bossed around just because hes a guy, you have feelings too and he should accept them ;)

[The Madman]

I know you don't want to hear this but I would honestly just dump him. There is no way I would go out with a girl who has cheated on me. If you don't trust him and you tell him to not talk to girls he should respect your wishes ( to an extent ).
I would honestly breakup with him and find somebody better, I think its honestly what is best for you in the long run.

Hope I helped.

[dmeek7]

If he's cheated on you lots of times before, you should definately break up with him. I don't understand why girls stay with guys that have cheated on them and they know they have, but they do.
Anyways, it sounds like he doesnt give a second thought about you. You should find a better guy than one that is going to treat you like he does.