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chargersfan
November 30th, 2010, 07:37 PM
ok so im pretty sure im bi at this point, but anyways i have a crush on one of my friends, and im to afraid to ask if he likes me back cause im only 50% sure he would say yes. I could see him being gay or bi because ill ocasionally try to hint without making it blaintly obvious at sleepovers that i want to..... like i rubbed his body up he never really took it but its not like he nudged me away either, so im torn on what i should do or just let it play out over time and see what happens?

Bard95
November 30th, 2010, 07:41 PM
I would say just play it out and see. but i would also keep hinting at it every once in a while

Joshuaharris
November 30th, 2010, 09:57 PM
I think its something that's very hard to do. You might start it by just mentioning you think you like boys and that you like him especially. Just let him know and if he likes you he will tell you and if he doesn't he if he is a real good friend he won't mind that you like him Luke that.

bluedude97
December 1st, 2010, 05:16 PM
let it play over time.
if its suppose to happen, itll happen.

JCake
December 1st, 2010, 07:07 PM
Let it play out. But, if you want to speed that up a little bit, I agree with joshua, tell him you think you might like guys, but I don't agree with telling him you like him. When I did that it didn't work out too well and I lost a friend. See how he reacts to the liking guys thing.

Also, if you do tell him you think you like guys, then there's a huge chance that he'll be like "do you like me?" or "do you think im hot?" or something like that. Every single one of my guy friends has asked me that even though they're all straight (also, a note about this, when you say no, they sometimes get really offended, it's hilarious).

But, that's just from my personal experience.

josh93
December 1st, 2010, 07:14 PM
Well its up to you and if you want to ask him. But probaly should play it out and keep on trying to give him hints. Then again if and when you feel really comfortbal with it. You should probaly ask him if he likes you. But it all depends on how you feel. If you really think he likes due to he dosent nudge you off when you rube against him and stuff like that. Then just go for it. I do Wish you the best of luck.:)