Best Friend

[heyitsjosh321]

Ok so there is this guy that I am really good friends with and have known since pre k. Anyways I think he is gay and I am curious but I am afraid to ask him. I have an elective with him and he winks at me and flexes his biceps at me. So how should I ask him without losing our bonds???

[bluedude97]

i think you should just straight out ask him. the only thing he can say is no or yes. i dont think that'll affect your friendship.

[broford]

Tough one. I have a similar experience with one of my friends. I always wanted to ask him, but never did. Over time, he got a boyfriend, so I never had to ask him. I'd say you just wait and see.

[heyitsjosh321]

Ok so I forgot to add this in but I kinda want to j/o with him or do something else.

[swimmerjeff]

i think you should just straight out ask him. the only thing he can say is no or yes. i dont think that'll affect your friendship.

I agree. Asking just that, nonchalantly, shouldn't hurt. Although, of course, if he has a notion that you'd react badly to him saying he's gay (if he in fact is), then he might lie.

[samshan]

I would maybe just start a convo about it, then ask instead of just asking. And whatever his answer is, it is. As for the part about you wanting to jack off with him, if he is gay, just ask him if he would maybe consider it.

[CBTurner]

Ah, tough situation. I would get on the subject, maybe say "Oh, (insert kid at your school's name) is gay I think, what do you think?"

I can't exactly explain it to you but it would come natural.

[RobbieK1]

yeah just ask don't let it come out as a joke though

[heyitsjosh321]

Ah, tough situation. I would get on the subject, maybe say "Oh, (insert kid at your school's name) is gay I think, what do you think?"

I can't exactly explain it to you but it would come natural.

Well I could but he is the heartthrob and jock of the entire school.

[Nancy Boy]

hehe, just grow some bawls and ask the guy, won't hurt nothing!!! ^_^

[SamB]

I think the best thing you could do is just ask him because if you try and work it out over time it may take a long time to find out and also if you just ask him out right then it should not affect your friendship if he is a true friend

[boosterboy]

try and divert a conversation to sex and stuff and take it from there really

[MisterAndrews]

Tough one. I have a similar experience with one of my friends. I always wanted to ask him, but never did. Over time, he got a boyfriend, so I never had to ask him. I'd say you just wait and see.

I agree. It's not vital that you find out right now. And actually, I think that if he truly wants you to know he'll tell you in his own time. Respect the fact that he hasn't told you :)

[tyler007]

That is a really tuff question: And does it make any difference in your friendship? I hope not. And if you just want to jerk off with him, well that is a different thing altogether. I have a friend that I jerk off with at least twice a week, its a lot of fun I think that I am bi curious, but I don’t know about Todd, on think I do know is that we are horny and enjoy jerking off. So maybe have him sleep over and watch some porn and then joke about being horny and wanting to jerk off and see what happens… Good luck. wish i could be more of a help...

[swimfreak85]

you could be like ohhh bob told me tht bill was gay, i dont kno why hes making a big deal about it, and see wht he says, or just flat out ask him

[war-fougt-in-a-boy]

First to save your self from humilation find out if hes gay or bi then ask him out lol off topic but the other day i got asked out by a dude lol and he was my friend i didnt know how totake it so i avoid him do you guys think i mwas wrong aand sorry im off topic

[loz4]

Risk it for a biscuit, ask him :)