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raiseyourvoice
November 30th, 2010, 01:24 AM
My cousin and I have always gave each other attitude when we were younger. now that were older we have grown to hang out and act more mature. we chat online a lot and its mostly about our goals and who we are becomming. We talk about relationships and the type of person we're looking for, what we want and what we dont want. we saw each other over the holidays of course and there seemed to be a lot of sexual tension. when we first saw each other, we pretended we didin notice each other but finally i went to say hello. we hugged and he pressed my body against his so that my breasts were very much tightly squeezed against his chest. throughout the night a bunch of the older kids got drunk and high and there was just a sexual tension between us. i caught him looking at me and he even asked me where i was sleeping that night. nothing happened but i was just wondering if this kind of behavoir is normal? i've been thinking about him lately and miss him. not too sure what to make of this, in other words i'm confused.
Please help!

Donkey
November 30th, 2010, 03:40 PM
I think a sexual relationship of any sort with your cousin is wrong. Do you feel uncomfortable with the fact that you are related? I'm not usually one to judge, and many people see it as completely acceptable but this is down to you and your cousin.

Would you feel comfortable in a relationship with him, knowing that you're only a parent, sibling and an offspring away? :P Essentially it comes down to you. I personally don't really see it as normal, at least in modern Western culture generally it isn't acceptable. But it definitely happens.

IAMWILL
November 30th, 2010, 10:13 PM
I mean, he is teenage guy, what do you expect?
He's acting like most teenagers, and its not like his body or mind has a block on relatives. He's going to look at you like that and be curious because that is what hormones do to teenagers. Simple as that.