View Full Version : Gay or Not?
terelock98
November 29th, 2010, 11:06 PM
For awhile since i was about 10 i masturbated...
When i went to an all boys school earlier this year i started to experiment,
we got bored at lunch so we went to the bathroom and went at it, it started just masturbating infront of eachother but then it went to sucking and then to sex and etc, we all have gf's that 2/5 of us (the lucky ones) still have sex with
is this considered we are going to end up gay or we are just experimenting?:confused:
Donkey
November 30th, 2010, 03:43 PM
An action doesn't make you gay - having sex with another guy doesn't make you gay. It's about your personal sexual feelings and attractions. Are you both physically and emotionally attracted to males only? If yes, you are gay. Are you both physically and emotionally attracted to males and females? If yes, you are bisexual. Are you both physically and emotionally attracted to females only? If so, you are straight.
During puberty, new hormones and chemicals released provoke strong sexual urges that can make you physically attracted to the same sex TEMPORARILY during your adolescent years. Experimenting is completely normal and you're fine to be doing it, as for sexuality it's always best to decide that later on once these new sexual urges have calmed down somewhat (after or at the end of puberty, around 18 years)
SamB
November 30th, 2010, 03:52 PM
It doesn't make you gay like you said you were experimenting like Jon said sexual actions don't make you gay it is emotional as well.
Lifeguard18
December 4th, 2010, 02:17 PM
it doesnt make you gay or anything. this question is always always always asked.
JonTyler
December 6th, 2010, 05:00 PM
Nope it doesn't make you gay. You are just experimenting, but if you have a physical attraction to them then maybe you are bi since you have a girlfriend
Curtis E
December 6th, 2010, 05:55 PM
thats cool
ccrunner
December 6th, 2010, 11:38 PM
Is there penetration? This makes no difference to the answer I was jw. But probably just exp.
Vkid
December 6th, 2010, 11:52 PM
umm well i wud not consider you 100% strait if ur having sex with the same sex, but i mean sexuality is really hard to define so just do whatever makes u happy and try to avoid lables
mjj1213
December 7th, 2010, 07:12 PM
It does not mak u gay. Its prob jes a turn on 4 u
Fishes
May 24th, 2011, 04:26 PM
most likely its just experimenting and it willl probably wear off
Joshuagoesrawr2
May 24th, 2011, 04:45 PM
No bcuz you were just experimenting but if want it then you might want to consider your sexuality of either being bi-sexual or bi-curious
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