15-16 Year Olds

[broford]

How do you feel about sex, value wise? I personally think it is best to wait until marriage, but I would have sex with someone if I intend to marry them. Call me old fashioned.

[guanako94]

I think that if you love that person then youre allowed to have sex.

[zander]

well my issues is that being gay i cant get married in most states so that would leave sex out totaly and i dont think that is right. think that whatever you decide you should be proud of your decision and live your life

[The Dark Lord]

I think that if you love that person then youre allowed to have sex.

remember the difference between real love and teenage love: one exists and the doesn't

[indieboy]

i believe that everyone is entitled to their own opinion and this should be respected. to me personally i dont see any harm in having sex with someone that you love, i dont make a habit of going around having sex with loads and loads of girls....thats just wrong

[Fact]

remember the difference between real love and teenage love: one exists and the doesn't

How are you supposed to tell the difference between 'teenage' love and 'real' love though?
When does one officially stop being a 'teenager' and become involved in 'real' love? It's not like when you're twenty someone flicks a switch and they become and adult who is capable of loving people 'properly'.


↑ for that reason, I'm beginning to doubt that 'love' exists, sadly. :(

[The Dark Lord]

How are you supposed to tell the difference between 'teenage' love and 'real' love though?
When does one officially stop being a 'teenager' and become involved in 'real' love? It's not like when you're twenty someone flicks a switch and they become and adult who is capable of loving people 'properly'.


↑ for that reason, I'm beginning to doubt that 'love' exists, sadly. :(

Teenage love is when people say "I love you" and have no idea what it means.

[Fact]

Teenage love is when people say "I love you" and have no idea what it means.

Where/What is the definition of love then?

[The Dark Lord]

Where/What is the definition of love then?

I don't know, I don't think you can know until you fall in love

[Fact]

I don't know, I don't think you can know until you fall in love

But how are you supposed to know if you have no knowledge of the content?
:(

[The Dark Lord]

But how are you supposed to know if you have no knowledge of the content?
:(

wait and find out

[Andreww]

Massive confusion up there ↑ :confused:

As for me, I'd probably decide to have sex when I really feel that I love the person (haven't felt that yet :(). And when I say love, I mean a feeling deeeep inside me that I've never felt before!

[tormag20]

DO IT! i would if we both agreed to. and if we were serious and "love" each other.

[Cudder]

You can be in real love when your a teen. My friend proposed to his girlfriend the other day. And they have already had sex

[abcd1234]

as long as its safe, i don't really think there is a time when it becomes okay
sex should be for people who care about each other

[Vonn]

Sex is for reproduction and pleasure. It's nicer if love is involved, but it's not required.

[massivet]

im still a virgin and have had ALOT of oppurtunities to have sex but i choose not too. My thing is idont care if me and the girl wont last, its just i dont want to regret it. I dont want it to be in the back of my mind for the rest of my life.

[Nancy Boy]

Teenagers are just as capable of 'real' love as 'adults' are. I have been in love. Hehe.

And do whatever you feel like. I've already broken the 'marriage' promise ^_^

[Joeyy7892]

I feel like you're ready, when you stop questioning yourself if you're ready. I'm not sure if that makes sense but yeah :D

[JonTyler]

I believe both people should love eachother and are both willing to do it then your ready. However, 15 and 16 might be a little young. Maybe 17 or 18

[chris4562]

i believe in the love part alot but then again you gotta think about it your young you need to have fun and get it in with whatever girl you got then later on settle down thats just my opinion

[The Red Devil]

I think you should save your first time for someone you truly love and care about. That doesn't mean the chick you picked up last night or last week. Someone who you have known for a while and grown to know them like you've been together since you were little. Some one who your incredibly close with. That's what is important, experiencing your first time with someone who isnt just going to use you.

After that, well I still think it should be something special. Sex isnt something you can just treat as a way to pleasure yourself, it should be enjoyed as a way to express your love for someone.

[Unlucky13]

i am 15 and i have been pressured heaps of times to have sex but u will no when the time is right, dont be pressured to do it if others are LOL
trust me i no how it feels to be stuck in that situation lol

[Cryofthewolf]

I would have to agree with you. I think that full on intercourse should be left for marriage. Other stuff, eh, I can't really say, because I have done things and will probably do things again, but I wouldn't have vaginal intercourse until I am married. I wouldn't have anal intercourse whether I was married or not, even to a guy. It just weirds me out.

But yeah, I would wait until marriage. Imagine having your first time be with the person you have pledged to spend the rest of your life with. =-D

[Stronger]

How do you feel about sex, value wise? I personally think it is best to wait until marriage, but I would have sex with someone if I intend to marry them. Call me old fashioned.

I agree its better to wait until marriage

[Brandon K]

if you wanna do it. do it

[SwimTech]

Sex is one thing that i truly want to stay close to on my Catholic faith and to wait until marriage. Sex is supposed to be special, not just for social status.

[Severus Snape]

As a shameless hedonist I do whatever I want when I want, really. Nothing morally wrong with having sex at any point.

[IbCrazy]

I guess i respect people enuff not to just have sex with them out of just being horny.. Honestly you have to love that person!

[iLoveVball]

I thought that when i was a virgin, but when i met "the right person" it seemed like I couldnt help myself and it had to happen. oh the power of love

[ccrunner]

I completley 100% agree wit you

[snk102892]

i am up for sex whenever, wherever.

[supbro]

im still a virgin and have had ALOT of oppurtunities to have sex but i choose not too. My thing is idont care if me and the girl wont last, its just i dont want to regret it. I dont want it to be in the back of my mind for the rest of my life.

i agree ^ if you really think you want to, and you actually love them. :)

[NoLongerInUse]

i think if the 2 people wanna have fun or love each other or just experiment its fine to do it!

[lightkun]

Sex is just sex. It doesn't have to mean anything but that's only cool if your partner feels the same way. Wow I sound shitty.
From what I have seen, if two virgins are dating, sometimes sex can complicate their relationship.

So no, as long as your being safe I guess it's ok IMO.

[teenboi14]

Dude I'm the same way! Lol

[lilum]

tbh i am not all hyped up on the whole marriage thing, i'll take sex when i get it :L love or no love haha

[curiousteen]

im still a virgin and have had ALOT of oppurtunities to have sex but i choose not too. My thing is idont care if me and the girl wont last, its just i dont want to regret it. I dont want it to be in the back of my mind for the rest of my life.

i feel the same exact way!!!

[qawsedrftg]

personally i think sex is sex, if ur with a partner who you really love then it can be a lot more emotional that it would be with som1 u didnt care for, but i dont think waiting until im married would make sex any more special, at the end of the day it depends who your having the sex with, not who many times uve had sex in the past.

[Drakula]

when you think about it sex doesnt REALLY have much to do with love. it's primarily for reproduction ( as well as pleasure)... its more about maturity.... if both participants are mature enough and so is everyone who knows about it, then it may be okay.
then you also have to think about unplanned pregnancies or diseases. i suggest waiting, i doubt its worth it around my age.

[massivet]

Personally I want it to be right with someone i love. I don't wanna regret it or feel used

[JasperSharp]

Anyway, on the short-and-skinny, men place value on sex the way you place value on love - which, incidentally, is why your having been with other guys, especially those we know/know of, initially makes us more angry than it would you in the opposite situation and we have to take time to get over it and allow ourselves to maturely phase out of it.

[Rose]

I think that as long as both people believe they are ready and have talked about it, done other things leading up to it than its okay. I am sixteen and I have never had sex but some of my friends have and they were comfortable and happy with that decision. Its your choice.

[rachy]

Ok the whole comment on "Teenage Love" is completely untrue to me. It doesn't matter how old you are to fall in love with someone and it pisses me off to hear that people think that teenagers don't know what love is! Everyone is completely entitled to their own opinion; anyway I feel like sex should happen between a married couple.. But if it happens before then it happens when it happens.

[restricted NA]

well my family is religious but i suppose if i find the right person that i know that i love i will have sex. But until then im just paying attention to school,nerdy i know XD

[Portable Desert]

If you want sex, go ahead and get it :)

[Fact]

Please don't bump old threads.

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