Sex = Love?

[LittleMonsterMike]

how many of you think sex equals love?

[gay_boy94]

no because you can have sex with anybody but can't love just anyone

[Deathwingo0o]

Force sex=rape
Force sex=force love?
I don't think so.

[closed]

NO! NO!! NO!!! NO!!!!!
It can lead to each other, but definetly not a must of being both.
You can have sex with a person you don't even know or like. (prostitution)
There can be love without sex.
They are unrelated. Love is a feeling and sex is an intimate sex act

[Sage]

You can have sex with a person you don't even know or like. (prostitution)

You don't need to resort to prostitution to have sex with someone you don't know/like. I don't really like my ex but she's offered to get it on and I've happily agreed.

[Andrew0017]

Definitely not. Sex can enhance a relationship that's already based on love, but you can't just throw sex into a troubled relationship and expect it to fix all the problems. That's where you need love.

[bmxkid313]

no and alot of people that go out loos intrest once they have sex

[OnceMoreWithFeeling]

No I dont think having sex means you love someone.

[Fiction]

Most definatley not.
Think of it this way.
You have sex with a person everyday for 10 years. You never see there face, you never hear there voice. How close to them are you? What do you feel for them?
You talk to someone everyday for 10 years. You never see them without there clothes and you never get anything sexual from them.

Which one are you closer too? Which one do you care about most?

I don't think sex can even enhance a relationship.

[Daniel_]

Love = sex, not vice versa.

[Chevy]

Love leads to sex. Sex does not lead to love

[Jess]

I don't believe in this.

what the others said. love leads to it, not the other way around

[Sage]

How close to them are you? What do you feel for them?
Depends on the position.

love leads to it, not the other way around
Love leads to sex. Sex does not lead to love
Love = sex, not vice versa.
You all say that because the only sort of love you know is teenage love. I loved my ex's tits way before I loved her.

[MoveAlong]

I don't think sex = love, or love = sex.

One may lead to another. They are not the same thing.
They are not the only cause for one another. I.e. sex does not necessarily case love, and vice versa.

Many people love each other but do not want to have sex.
Many people have sex and do not invest their feelings in it.

[Amnesiac]

Pssht, no. The only people who really think sex=love are evil social conservatives. People have sex because it feels good, man, not because of some emotional attachment (with the exception of married people, of course).

[Sage]

You all say that because the only sort of love you know is teenage love. I loved my ex's tits way before I loved her.

Whoever gave me negative rep for this post saying "And this is why guys like you are single..." should know that I fully choose to be single out of personal preference and don't take it as an insult.

[Hatsune Miku]

Whoever gave me negative rep for this post saying "And this is why guys like you are single..." should know that I fully choose to be single out of personal preference and don't take it as an insult.

We all know Tim is a woman. I mean, just look at his avatar. Come on guise.
And I have no idea what I am.


Pssht, no. The only people who really think sex=love are evil social conservatives. People have sex because it feels good, man, not because of some emotional attachment (with the exception of married people, of course).

[Azunite]

Then you would have to marry the prostitute you had sex with

[The Dark Lord]

people have sex cos its enjoyable, sex means less and less now.

[Fact]

I don't think sex can even enhance a relationship.

I don't know how far I agree with that.

Being a virgin, what would I know :P
But I definitely believe that sex does not equate to love.
Thinking about it, love doesn't have to equate to sex either.

However, I think that within a loving relationship, lust would most likely come into it too, so sex would become an act of lust via love.

[Fiction]

I think sex is a way of showing love, but I don't think it makes you and another person any closer.
As Sage's post about how he loved his gf's tits before he loved her... it's not your gf's tits that caused you to love her is it?

[Ender]

Sex is a great way of expressing your love for someone, when the time is right.

[usernamelol]

false. sex is a release. love is a deep connection to someone. with love, sex is always secondary. no matter how great it may be :P

[Sage]

As Sage's post about how he loved his gf's tits before he loved her... it's not your gf's tits that caused you to love her is it?
Not entirely.

[Jstr]

somone can have love with sex but not sex with love

[Sage]

You people must have never heard of hedonism.

[MyNameIsJack]

addfasd

[ShaneK]

from my blog love or ... "I find it hard to understand sometimes how some people equate sex with love, another level of closeness in a relationship yes, but love? Sex is healthy and we all need it in our lives. No sex is not love by any measure, a joining of bodies yes, but love is way deeper than just the physical. Its the spiritual and the emotional."

[dmeek7]

Love leads to sex. Sex does not lead to love

Sex could leave to love in a way that if you and a stranger have sex, and she gets pregnent, and you stick with her to raise the child, and you eventuallly love each other. hahaha. that was a giant "figuratively speaking" moment.

I do not beleive Sex = Love. You can absolutely have sex with someone you don't love. Love= Sex might work though. If you love someone you have sex with them. (when the time is right).