Holding back cum

[darkwoon]

I *finally* started to ejaculate less than a month ago :) there is only a little bit of wetness so far, but the amount is slowly increasing.

I discovered that if I squeezed my butt at a specific timing, I'd have an orgasm as usual, but nothing would come out - I guess squeezing the inner muscle prevents it to come out.

Is this dangerous? Are other people here doing something similar? And also, I find it very easy to do, but would it become harder when there is more cum to hold back?

Thanks!

[Donkey]

Anal masturbation is normal, and OK. You just have to be really careful as the anus is very delicate and to be honest it's a safer bet just to masturbate normally.

[darkwoon]

Anal masturbation is normal, and OK. You just have to be really careful as the anus is very delicate and to be honest it's a safer bet just to masturbate normally.

err, I'm actually not putting anything in my butt - I'm just squeezing it while stroking my shaft to prevent sperm from coming :)

[Donkey]

You're squeezing your butt to prevent your ejaculation? Alright, I have no idea how that works but just be careful. It doesn't sound good, I'd let nature take it's course if I were you

[Tristin.]

squeexing your but stops ejaculation :S

is that even possible?

im not sure whether its dangerous but as jon said, be careful and just let nature take its course :)

[Andreww]

Never heard of that before.. it doesn't sound too healthy tho

[SWMG]

I have never heard of it before but holding your ejaculation doesnt seems well

[anro]

I believe what he's trying to say is he clenches his cheeks to hold it in, as if you had to pee really bad and were holding it in. I do it sometimes when I don't want to make a mess.

[Jolteon]

Ive never done that before but squeezing like that might cause some problems so I wouldnt do it all the time

[josh0416]

Definitely just let nature take its course.

[adam1995]

Actually this makes a lot of sence. When you squeeze your "butt" your actually clenching the same muscle that allows urine and cum to leave your urethra. Truth is, when you are producing more semen, you may not be able to choke it all off, but if there is just a tiny amount, it wouldn't be difficult. Question is, why do you want to? Just let it fly! That's my advice.

[closed]

u think u squeeze ur butt, but u actualyl squeeze muscles in your penis. It's better not to do it because it can hurt the ejaculation mechanism .

[broford]

Same as gripping your sack before ejaculation, stopping the flow of sperm is very dangerous. From what I remember, it could even cause sterility. Best not to hinder nature's course

[willrod]

I had never heard of this before, so I looked it up online. It's called "retrograde ejaculation"- and can be pretty dangerous. Basically, when you "hold it in"- rather than exiting the urethra like it's supposed to, the semen backs up into the bladder. I found this advice from JackinWorld.com:

Taoist teachers who advocate the finger lock or similar techniques believe every expulsion of semen from the body weakens the person and endangers his health. Although this assertion is said to be based on centuries of accumulated experience, there is no available scientific or medical evidence to support it.

Moreover, preventing ejaculation may have bad effects. Of some concern is retrograde ejaculation, or "injaculation," in which semen backs up into the bladder. One way to determine if this has happened is to collect a sample from your next urination. If the urine is cloudy, it probably includes semen. You may be able to prevent this from happening the next time by moving your fingertips closer to your anus, stopping the semen before it reaches the point where the bladder feeds into the urethra. This adjustment requires very fine tuning. However, even if you prevent semen from entering the bladder, seminal fluids will still be forced back through internal valves designed to control flow in the opposite direction, with the full explosive power of ejaculatory contractions. Study of prostate problems among men of all ages suggests that retaining too much unexpelled semen or "necrotic fluid" inside the body may contribute to serious health problems. And the famous Dr. Drew Pinsky of MTV's "Loveline" has said injaculation is a bad idea and can possibly lead to fertility problems, though we have no idea where he got that information.

Furthermore, a great deal of evidence has accumulated to indicate that the perineum is quite vulnerable to damage. Both nerves and blood vessels crucial to sexual functioning are found within this area, as long-distance bike riders have discovered to their dismay — the regular pounding the perineum receives from a traditional bicycle seat can contribute to impotence. This problem is now taken seriously enough that bicycle manufacturers are developing alternative designs that put the pressure on the inner thighs instead. For further information see the article "Spokes Man for a Hard Problem" by Steve Mirsky in Scientific American Presents, Volume 10, Number 2, Summer 1999. While the finger lock may not necessarily do such damage, the perineum is clearly not designed to withstand high pressures regularly.

Our initial consultation with a Taoist expert on male sexual function indicated there should be "no problem" with the finger lock — he compared the technique with the results of a vasectomy. But this comparison does not hold up under scrutiny. Vasectomy involves surgical excision of the vas deferens, the tube that carries sperm from the testes to the ejaculatory duct. A vasectomy therefore prevents only the small fraction of seminal fluid that contains sperm cells from being ejaculated, whereas the finger lock prevents any semen at all from being expelled. A vasectomy is a birth-control procedure, and it has no effect at all upon either sexual function or masturbatory pleasure. Of course, the finger lock should never be considered a means of birth control — it simply won't work for that purpose.

When we approached the American Urological Association for an expert opinion, we were told they do not answer questions and exist only to serve their members. We then found a medical Web site that discussed retrograde ejaculation, but only from accidental trauma or as a side effect of surgery. Eventually, we made contact with an Australian physician whose responses proved far more helpful. Evidently retrograde ejaculation in itself — that is, the forcing of semen into the bladder — usually does not cause any particular harm. The doctor cautioned, however, that traumatic pressure to the urethra should be avoided. While admitting that very little research exists on the subject, he further cautioned that "any interference with the discharge of either semen or urine is a big 'no-no' in the presence of infection, since infection must be encouraged to be flushed out." Any kind of infection can become much worse if it spreads into the bladder. Lastly, "if it hurts, then don't do it!" We thank this source for his valuable assistance.

To be honest, I think, even though it's a pain having to deal with messes and such, it's best to let nature take its course and to not interfere with ejaculation at all.

[smaiden]

dude i don't know why you'd even want to stop it. it is sooo much better to let it loose.

[Nancy Boy]

Anal masturbation is normal, and OK. You just have to be really careful as the anus is very delicate and to be honest it's a safer bet just to masturbate normally.

hehe, agreed. ^_^

[Solvez18]

sounds real unhealthy, let nature do it's job.

[SpringBean]

Wait no, I see what hes saying. Since sometimes masturbating doesn't feel good enough I bassicly "squeeze my butt cheeks" and straighted my legs and for some reason if feels a lot better. It does stop cum though, but otherwise it's really hard to get to taht point because otherwise for me atleast it just doesn't feel as good. I don't think hes doing it TO stop cum... It just helps.

[DerBear]

Let nature do its thing

[Drew Tyler]

Actually this makes a lot of sence. When you squeeze your "butt" your actually clenching the same muscle that allows urine and cum to leave your urethra. Truth is, when you are producing more semen, you may not be able to choke it all off, but if there is just a tiny amount, it wouldn't be difficult. Question is, why do you want to? Just let it fly! That's my advice.

Yeah, let it fly!! Get a tissue if you don't want to make a mess!! Or...don't masturbate!! :eek: lol...

[SpringBean]

Yeah, let it fly!! Get a tissue if you don't want to make a mess!! Or...don't masturbate!! :eek: lol...

To be honest i'd rather die then not masturbate! (Unless it's... y'know.. Hehe)

But yeah, i'm not saying it's normal it's just something that helps.

[White Stocking Cap]

Well, it's just the tightening of that muscle and as someone posted, can be dangerous. Anyways, for those of you who clench that muscle and straighten their legs, you are ALSO tightening that muscle which if I remember correctly sends more of a blood flow or cuts it off from leaving to your penis thus, it feels better because, the nerves in your penis are more "active" I suppose. I do the second thing too during masturbation but, I wouldn't stop my cum from flying. That gets rid of all the fun! :D

[Timmy93]

It might prevent normal bloodflow when you hold back cum but idk if it will caue severe damage

[Andelicious]

Question is, why do you want to? Just let it fly! That's my advice.

I'm pretty confused about the method the OP described, but I do like to hold back when I masturbate. I'll jack off right to when I about to cum and then stop. Teasing my body like that tends to turn me on even more because of the anticipation and build up, and when I finally do decide to "let it fly" my orgasms are usually much more intense. It just feels awesome haha at least to me :)

[Ambrosia]

Read the dates before you post. Don't bump old threads, please! :) :locked: