What do I do?

[Costanza]

I want to ask this girl out. I really want to ask her out and im 90% sure that she would say yes, but im just so shy and afraid of rejection. I dont know what to do.

[Kaius]

Hey, just remember that 90% certainty must come from somewhere. You'll never know her answer until you actually do it so try and put that worry to the back of your mind. Shyness is a complete pain in the ass, and if you let it control your life you'll never get anywhere with it. I know how you feel when it comes to asking out girls, it was one of the reasons i was scared of asking out my girlfriend now of nearly 11 months. Just remember 90% means only 10% chance of rejection, which is more likely? :)

[Costanza]

The 90% comes from people telling me she likes me. But I dont know if their just messing with me. So were you shy and did you get over it?

[Kaius]

I didn't fully get over it no but i just got so sick of the wondering i just went straight out and asked it, and found out she really did like me. When you like someone half the time you're blind around them. you can't see the signs they like you because you're too worried of being rejected by them. The people that said it, have they been truthful in the past, or is there any reason you think they'd lie to you about it?

[Costanza]

No they wouldn't lie to me. Ughh it's nerve racking

[Costanza]

What should I do? Just go up and ask her?

[Kaius]

What do you feel is the best way of asking her? Ask her to see a movie sometime, when you get her alone you could ask her there and then :)

[Costanza]

What do you feel is the best way of asking her? Ask her to see a movie sometime, when you get her alone you could ask her there and then :)
uhhh im not sure ...

[whereismymind]

Hey try asking her somewhere nice and quiet where your alone and just be as sweet as possible

[Costanza]

Hey try asking her somewhere nice and quiet where your alone and just be as sweet as possible
Its really hard to get to talk to her, in person, without other people around. And i dont want anyone else to be there if i get rejected, because if anyone is there in 2 seconds everyone would know.

[Costanza]

If i do get time without other people its only like a minute. nvm its not even a minute.

[Costanza]

One more thing. What do i do if she says yes? just talk to her later? what if she says no? just walk away?

[Daniel_]

If your 90% sure she would say yes, then go for it. Theres no reason not to. Just try to overcome your shyness.

[yankeefan7723]

One more thing. What do i do if she says yes? just talk to her later? what if she says no? just walk away?

DOH! *facepalms*

I keed, I keed.

Okay, say the conversation goes a little something like this(yes it will be corny, but you'll get the jist of what I'm trying to say):

(For demonstration purposes, her name will be Sara)

*Don't just come out and ask her. Start a conversation and slowly build it toward asking her out. When you get close, it may go something like this*

You: "So I was thinking about seeing a movie this weekend and I was wondering if you felt like seeing one too?"

Sara: "Like a date?"

You: "You can call it what you want as long as you go with me?"

Sara: "Sure I'd love to go!"

*Now you've get what you sought after so avoid an awkward moment and get out of there...if you can."

You: "Awesome! You want to trade numbers so we can decide what to see?"

*She agrees*

You: "Alright, I'll call you later!"

Done.

[Costanza]

ughh! im so mad at myself, i keep chickening out