So...

[Pudd]

I have a friend. I also have a boyfriend.
Today I learned that this friend was attracted to me.
And in a hypothetical situation where I was single, I wouldn't be opposed to dating him...
But what should I do? Things between my and my boyfriend aren't the same as they used to be. He's changed and I don't like what he's becoming, I feel as if I'm growing apart from him...
But my friend on the other hand...

Can someone help me please???

[hotandgay]

well just tell your BF its not working and be with your friend

[Pudd]

well just tell your BF its not working and be with your friend

I doubt that would go down well for obvious reasons.
People would also think I'm a 'slut' for getting into another relationship so quickly...

[hotandgay]

pish posh who cares what people say you do what you want to....you have your reasons and they dont know shit

[Theatheist of doom]

I doubt that would go down well for obvious reasons.
People would also think I'm a 'slut' for getting into another relationship so quickly...

Well, y'know I do think that just throwing it up in the air is a bit unreasonable. But you should talk to your boyfriend ask him why this is happening and see if you can fix it. If not try to slowly ease out of the relationship, wait a few months then ask your friend out.

[laurita_21]

I think you should talk to your boyfriend first about how he's changing, if it he doesn't do anything about it and your not happy with him anymore then theres no point in staying in a relationship with him. But you gotta at least fight for it!
If not then I think you should go to you other friend. And what's wrong with getting into another relationship so fast? If it bothers you that much you can just be friends for a while and then get into a proper relationship. Good luck ^_^

[Pudd]

Thanks for the advice.
I'll stick it out until new years and see if anything changes.
If not, I'll break up with him.

[The Madman]

Well I would just say break up with your boyfriend if it continues to "not work" wait a few months and then go out with your friend.

Or just dump him, and go out with your friend but not be official and dont tell anybody.

Hope i helped :D

[dmeek7]

Well this is a sticky situation. Maybe when you stick it out until new years, and if it hasn't worked out for you and you end up breaking up with your boyfriend, just wait about two weeks or so before you date this friend. It also matters how long you and your boyfriend have been going out. the length of the relationship and the recovery time is a direct relationship. The longer the relationship was the longer you should wait before you jump back into dating....lets say...for each month you've been dating, you wait a week and a half before you date again. That's just an example.

[Pudd]

We've been together for about 10 months.
It just seems so sudden... I don't know what to do :(