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Love.Hate
November 27th, 2010, 10:05 AM
Right me and my bf have been going out nearly two months (three days to go). And i feel like he is spending all his time with his friends. and ignoring me.

We talk online and when his friends arent around, but when one or two of them are there he cant help himself he just goes off and starts acting really childish and ignoring me.Or i will ask him if he is walking home, he says yes then doesnt wait for me! Its really getting me down, i know there has to be a compromise between being with friends and girlfriends but its so annoying.

He is nearly 16 i dont want to tell him he is being childish or that i feel left out.. He should know that himself. Urgh.

Any way do you think im over reacting?
Thankyou x

nick
November 27th, 2010, 11:21 AM
It sounds as if he's taking you for granted a bit. Its OK for him to want to spend some time with his other friends, but if he says he's going to walk you home then he shouldnt stand you up.

Fact
November 27th, 2010, 05:01 PM
Although I don't think you're over reacting now, I'd be careful to make sure these feelings don't escalate. It's difficult, but try to let them go a little. He's a guy who wants to spend time with his friends, unfortunately you're not going to be top on his agenda 24/7.
If it's getting you down for real though, just talk to him about it in private, in person if possible. Try not to come across as being whiny or attention seeking. Just explain to him that you feel a bit left out and miss him when he stands you up after school and leaves you for his friends.

Love.Hate
November 28th, 2010, 06:11 AM
Thankyou both :)