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jaxfl18
November 26th, 2010, 04:01 AM
So Im 19 yrs old and I have an 19 year old friend who I have had a bit of gay history with. About 4 years ago when we were first friends our friendship escalated from showing each other our junk as a joke to openly masturbating in front of each other. In a few instances we took pictures kinda jokingly. We were pretty touchy feely until we were actually doing something, then it became look and don't touch. He switched to an art school and we eventually kinda lost touch. We were pretty much best friends for almost 2 years and we even had a band.

A few months ago I ran into him at a local garage band show and he was piss drunk. Greeted me with a hug and kinda hung off me a bit, likely from the alcohol but I felt there was something more to it in the way he was talking to me.

Facebook friends after the incident at the show. Chatted a bit on there, you know how that goes. Have invited him over numerous times to hang out but he has a whole different set of friends who are all artsy fartsy who he commits most of his time to.

Tonight I was drunk and invited him over on FB chat and he agreed to come over and smoke a few cigs. This was at about 130 in the morniing btw. He came over and it was not the least bit awkward, as if no time had passed since the last time we huun out. He eventually admitted to telling a mutual acquaintance about our escapades. He said she kept asking him if I was gay and he said he wasn't sure which was pretty much his way of askign if I was gay or not. I admitted to being bisexual and he pretty much had no reaction and was all around chill about it.

Talk turned to sex as it normally does and I told my friend about some nudes I had seen online of a girl we both used to chase and I told him to look it up later. He wanted me to get online and bring it up then so I attempted to but the site was experiencign downtime, just my luck. He looked to be adjusting himself a few times while I was attempting to load the site. After that idea was shot we went to the porch to smoke and he told me of a 4some he almost had with a bi guy and 2 girls. He said the only reason he didn't was he heard the guy had aids.

He left about 20 mins ago and shook my hand abouut 4 times before he left at various times. He was holding his dick in his other hand through his pants one of those times but i didnt say anythin. He said he wanted to hang out again soon.

Am I looking too into this? I feel like we could pick up were we left off but I have no idea how to breach the subject really. Sorry for thne long rant, still tipsy. Heck of a first post ahahhhaha.

Scarface
November 26th, 2010, 05:44 AM
Puberty for Boys:arrow:Friends and Family

IAMWILL
November 28th, 2010, 02:56 AM
Hmm...
Well if you are really interested, pursue it! If it stays like it was before you lost touch with him it would probably be enjoyable and not have many or no consequences. As long as it is not a daily thing and it doesn't interrupt with your lives I don't see a problem with it.

Art_dude
November 28th, 2010, 11:31 AM
I agree with Will as I almost always do xD

Despite the new school and group of friends, it sounds like he's still, deep down, the same person. I don't think you would've been able to reconnect like no time had passed if that weren't the case. As Will said, as long as it doesn't interrupt your lives or become a daily thing, I don't see a problem with it. It sounds like you had a fun, casual relationship, and now that you have the opportunity to reestablish that, I don't see why you wouldn't want to do so. Go for it bud.