No friends.

[Connoronor]

I just feel so lonely all the time, I hardly go into school because of massive anxiety.
I have no real friends who I can really talk to. I feel so lonely when everyone
else is going to parties having fun with their friends, going out with girlfriends/boyfriends etc while I'm holed up in my room, just thinking about this.

I feel horrible all the time on the weekends, especially now. I sometimes just want to die thinking about the future and how I'm going to be a socially inept loner and basic failure forever as I'm failing my education as well. I'll probably be on the streets by the time I'm 21

I don't know what I'm going to do as I seem to repel anyone I talk to - as I have aspergers and it can be hard to make friends sometimes - and anyone who does dare to be friends with me always turns on me and fucking leaves me and makes fun of me anyway. Either that or I'm just too much of a pussy to pluck up the courage to talk to them. I just can't take this forever. I'm just sick of it all. But I don't know If I'll ever be able to do anything about it.

Sorry for ranting this guys btw, just wanted to get it out. Seems though there's no one to talk to at the moment.

[Peace God]

Im probably the wrong person to be giving advice on how to make friends because I am/was the same way. But trust me i feel your pain.

I guess if you put yourself out there more then you're more likely to find someone who likes you for being you instead of being quiet, careful and acting like someone who you arent (which is what i used to do).

Again, im not an expert and im still working on it myself but it seems like the right thing to do.
Good luck.

[Mike321]

Again I am probably not the best person to advise you on this, but I know how your feeling, I used have a close group of friends, but I constantly feel lonley and left out.
I never get invited out anywhere and spend my evenings in my room.
I am worried about the future, I still have no idea what I'm doing with my life, you still have plenty of time.
I dont know what else to say really, but your not alone in feeling like this

[ChristinaD]

i am realy popular ( not trying to boast but to help !)

what you should do is , just try be funny , join in conversations , if your friends or people u know are geeky , then u be geeky , if they are cool and rebels youu be a rebel till you fit in and then you can change but still be in the group ! :)

i hpe your okay :) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Coolcar65]

I actually think the opposite of the previous reply. Dont chage yourself but find ppl that are like you. Trust me their is always someone. And if not get involved theirs alot of ways you can make true freinds. And remember to stay true to yourself.

[RockstarRocks]

u sound just like me. i isolate myself to for same reasons as u and some r diffrent. i dont hang out with my friends because i go to sleep at 9pm because of insomia if i dont i get a panik attack i also have to get up at 5am or i get rlly mad. i dont think anyone will understand it. im embarresed of it. my friends no my insamia that i have it. but they dont no thats y i dont hang out with them. they will want to stay all night. they cant. i even sleep with my mom afraid to sleep alone because of ghost. it comes when im sleeping alone. i never tell anyone this stuff other than my mom. im weird my friends dont no this stuff its embarresing. im embarresed to even post this.

[goofball]

I just feel so lonely all the time, I hardly go into school because of massive anxiety.
I have no real friends who I can really talk to. I feel so lonely when everyone
else is going to parties having fun with their friends, going out with girlfriends/boyfriends etc while I'm holed up in my room, just thinking about this.

I feel horrible all the time on the weekends, especially now. I sometimes just want to die thinking about the future and how I'm going to be a socially inept loner and basic failure forever as I'm failing my education as well. I'll probably be on the streets by the time I'm 21

I don't know what I'm going to do as I seem to repel anyone I talk to - as I have aspergers and it can be hard to make friends sometimes - and anyone who does dare to be friends with me always turns on me and fucking leaves me and makes fun of me anyway. Either that or I'm just too much of a pussy to pluck up the courage to talk to them. I just can't take this forever. I'm just sick of it all. But I don't know If I'll ever be able to do anything about it.

Sorry for ranting this guys btw, just wanted to get it out. Seems though there's no one to talk to at the moment.

Same story here.
Don't get invited to parties and not doing as well as I'd like to be in school.
I'm having a very similar problem. I'm just wondering:
do you not talk to people because you're scared of their impressions of you...do you feel like you're constatnly being judged? Because that's exactly how I feel. I'm not sure if I have any "mental problems" (I hate that phrase, sounds so offensive) but I'm just extremely shy. Also, do you not talk to people because they don't initiate the conversation? I can't stand starting a conversation, it's just too hard and awkward.

But...all of this, I would not trade for any other social life. The "popular" kids are just a bunch of self-centred insecure kids that will follow any crowd just to belong.

I know many people like this and have had some friends like this, they'll ditch me to go off with their "friends" and I'll stay put because I don't know them, and don't want to be intruding.

Anyway, forgot my main point. The "popular" kids are all empty shallow people. The people they call their friends, are nothing more than trophies, something to show off, to say "I'm better than you". When people like us make friends, we become close, because we can be true to each other. But the "cool" kids, all have the same personalities. They will do anything to belong, whether that's make fun of "us" or be someone they're not. They have false friends. I don't know if I'm making any sense but I can't really explain this with words. To me, it's crystal clear. I just don't like "mainstream" kids.

[Firemisson]

I just feel so lonely all the time, I hardly go into school because of massive anxiety.
I have no real friends who I can really talk to. I feel so lonely when everyone
else is going to parties having fun with their friends, going out with girlfriends/boyfriends etc while I'm holed up in my room, just thinking about this.

I feel horrible all the time on the weekends, especially now. I sometimes just want to die thinking about the future and how I'm going to be a socially inept loner and basic failure forever as I'm failing my education as well. I'll probably be on the streets by the time I'm 21

I don't know what I'm going to do as I seem to repel anyone I talk to - as I have aspergers and it can be hard to make friends sometimes - and anyone who does dare to be friends with me always turns on me and fucking leaves me and makes fun of me anyway. Either that or I'm just too much of a pussy to pluck up the courage to talk to them. I just can't take this forever. I'm just sick of it all. But I don't know If I'll ever be able to do anything about it.

Sorry for ranting this guys btw, just wanted to get it out. Seems though there's no one to talk to at the moment.


I know how you feel :)
I may be one of the popular kids in school, But i know i don't have any real friends. I don't call the people that i hang out with in school friends at all. There just school mates or acquaintances, Not real friends.

Although i don't try my best in school most of the time. :P
You have to think about the future and don't think about whats going on in your social life at the moment.

Like you i repel a lot of people. Mainly because i don't like too many people and i dont like having them around a lot. :P

Like Bob Marley said "Truth is everyone's going to hurt you. you just got to find the ones worth suffering for"

And don't be sorry about ranting i know you had to get that out :)

In time things will be better. Promise. :D

[Fiction]

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