yankeefan7723
November 25th, 2010, 02:21 AM
Need some here guys.
So back in April I dated this girl for maybe a month. We were friends for like 2 years prior and talked a lot when we had the opportunity. After weeks of failed attempts trying to get her to come over we broke up over Facebook. Her reasoning was that she felt differently. My guess is because we had been friends for so long she didn't feel comfortable with it. Though all of the relationships she's been in, to my knowledge, have been the same way. We agreed to stay friends and that everything would be fine.
We had no classes last year so it was difficult to kind of talk to her for the first time after the break up so I just never made the effort. This year we still have no classes, but often times we pass each other in the hallways. I don't say anything or make eye contact because it would be too awkward after all this time. However I really want to get out friendship in a better state. I was thinking about messaging her over Facebook to break the ice then whenever I see her in the hall I give her a "Hey!" or brush her shoulder or something.
I'm just wondering how to get closer to her again. Should I try Facebook or what? Also, how can I attempt to get back together with her. She broke it off so it would be challenging to do so, but I feel like I really missed out.
Thanks for the help guys.
So back in April I dated this girl for maybe a month. We were friends for like 2 years prior and talked a lot when we had the opportunity. After weeks of failed attempts trying to get her to come over we broke up over Facebook. Her reasoning was that she felt differently. My guess is because we had been friends for so long she didn't feel comfortable with it. Though all of the relationships she's been in, to my knowledge, have been the same way. We agreed to stay friends and that everything would be fine.
We had no classes last year so it was difficult to kind of talk to her for the first time after the break up so I just never made the effort. This year we still have no classes, but often times we pass each other in the hallways. I don't say anything or make eye contact because it would be too awkward after all this time. However I really want to get out friendship in a better state. I was thinking about messaging her over Facebook to break the ice then whenever I see her in the hall I give her a "Hey!" or brush her shoulder or something.
I'm just wondering how to get closer to her again. Should I try Facebook or what? Also, how can I attempt to get back together with her. She broke it off so it would be challenging to do so, but I feel like I really missed out.
Thanks for the help guys.