feeling of being unloved

[Kuervo]

i dont know why i keep thinking about these things. i feel unloved, unwanted, lonely (but Fact nailed a great response to this =D) but i know tht i have people tht love me like friends and family. i just sometimes feel tht im very unloved and this gets me sad, but sometimes tht sadness turns into anger and envy (no clue why) and i become angry at people for no reason. this just sucks. i really dont know wut to do now. i just want to give up on life =(

[hotandgay]

DRINK...lol no dont do that...what you should do if find new people...join a small group...go to church...meet strangers at the mall...(NOTH THE ONES WITH THE LOLLIPOPS)...SORRY IM A BIT DRUNK...LOL but yeah it should work

[Kuervo]

lol nice going dude, but the only time i feel tht way is when im alone

[hotandgay]

yeah i kno that feeling...the way i solved it was (not by drinking lol) to find something that kept me company...the phone, tv, something funny, happy music, scary movie, nothing with romance or loneliness

[Fiction]

I sometimes feel like this. It got a lot better when i got a new group of friends though earlier this year.. so maybe try to find a new group of friends as Talon said. You could alos try improving relationships between you and our family, although this can be hard. Also another major thing that helped me was this site. Find friends on this site, everyone is always willing to talk.
Feel free to contact me if you want to talk :)

[RockstarRocks]

you sound just like me. I no my mom loves me. but i feel unloved basikly i feel stupid. i feel like none understands me. so i no how u feel. i no what its like to want to die i feel it everyday. but dont die everyone derserves to live.

[NitoJuanito]

you sound just like me. I no my mom loves me. but i feel unloved basikly i feel stupid. i feel like none understands me. so i no how u feel. i no what its like to want to die i feel it everyday. but dont die everyone derserves to live.

this is how i feel everyday, but for me its because i get yelled at and insulted t by parents, you kno those bullies at school, that's my mom and my gma, i dnt live with my dad but at times i wish that my parents stayed together :'|

[Nevermore]

I feel the same way. :/ In fact I feel that way when I'm with others as well. What I think can help you is perhaps maybe getting involved in activities after school. Maybe you like Russian. Join the Russian club at school and make friends. Maybe take up fencing. Whatever you like to do. Try making plans with friends, and other family members. Movies or books can be a great distraction from the lonlieness. You can focus on the characters life rather then your own. You get angry because you're tired of feeling lonely and subconciously want someone to do something about it. Or at least that's what I feel it is for me. I knwo how you're feeling you're NOT alone! *hugs* Please feel free to VM me. I have a slight suggestion talk to someone about this, a close frined, family memeber, maybe even get help. You can get through this. As you stated you are aware you are loved by family and friends and are not lonely. So here's something that you should do. When you get up in the mornign say these three things everday. I'm loved, I'm not alone, Everything is ok. This will start getting planted in your head and it will make it easier for yourself to beleive the truth. Whenever you say to yourself... I'm unloved, I'm alone. Name three people who said hi today. Whether it's your mom, you dad, your neighbor, even a wave counts. Then tell yourself see if they didn't love me they wouldn't acknowledge me. i hope this helps. Stay strong!

[Mariiniitahh]

aww biqq broo mhee luhvess yuhh babyy=)

[Fiction]

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