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GryffindorSeeker
November 24th, 2010, 10:20 PM
A friend of mine recently asked me to stay over at his house so we could do some sexual stuff together. Now I'm open to things like jacking each other and fingering each other but he wants to swap blow jobs???

Would you do this?

Have you done this?

hotandgay
November 24th, 2010, 10:24 PM
yeah
and
yeah

its fun to play with str8 people :)

CBTurner
November 24th, 2010, 10:50 PM
No and no.

lost1
November 24th, 2010, 11:11 PM
A friend of mine recently asked me to stay over at his house so we could do some sexual stuff together. Now I'm open to things like jacking each other and fingering each other but he wants to swap blow jobs???

Would you do this?

Have you done this?

That's sketchy. Tell him you're a little uncomfortable. I think that's the best option.

As tempting as it is, I would refrain from doing it. Unless he's super hot. And you guys want to date.

But if you're not interested, GET OUT. That will just start a bunch of drama and emotional craziness.

lightkun
November 25th, 2010, 12:04 AM
I think it really depends on the person. If you think that he wouldn't really care after and not be weird about it, I say go for it. It sounds fun to me.

Footballkid27
November 25th, 2010, 12:25 AM
its a difficult question. If youre both up to it, then its fine but be warned it could make things between you awkward. I have done this before many times and it has been fine, but its up to u

Deathwingo0o
November 25th, 2010, 12:33 AM
Many have done it without prob. Just make sure you can let go before you agree to it.

coleman8r 77
November 25th, 2010, 12:45 AM
yep yep

BayArea
November 25th, 2010, 01:30 AM
Its up to you man.

YouCalledMeSugar
November 25th, 2010, 02:33 AM
ehh like you said im fine with jacking and stuff but blow jobs seems alittle...far...

eh mabye
no

cokeboy
November 25th, 2010, 03:24 AM
yo dude thats really up to u. itz not a bad thing
i would do it,have done it and still do it

Eddie.37
November 25th, 2010, 03:26 AM
yes and yes and have i told you yes?

Jolteon
November 25th, 2010, 03:38 AM
Yeah ive done it you shouldnt feel bad about it alot of guys have done it or thought about doing it.

Dean1
November 25th, 2010, 05:33 AM
Yeah i would like to do it as in bj but never have.

SamB
November 25th, 2010, 09:15 AM
well it is really up to you if you want to do it then go for it but if your uncomfortable with it then tell him and if he is a real friend then he will accept that. but if you do go ahead with it then just be careful because one thing could lead to another.

Apollo.
November 25th, 2010, 02:29 PM
Would I: yeah, for sure
Have I: Unfortunately no but I really wanna

SurfDudeJason
November 25th, 2010, 03:10 PM
Private

shartalot17
November 25th, 2010, 03:34 PM
yes and yes. It is really fun! but in the end it is up to you.

Forever.Nandos
November 25th, 2010, 03:46 PM
Delete.

Skorupski
November 25th, 2010, 05:01 PM
I think I would, but I never have.

appel1234
November 25th, 2010, 06:11 PM
yeahand u should do it

foxtrot
November 25th, 2010, 07:01 PM
Yes and no

LittleMonsterMike
November 25th, 2010, 08:08 PM
yes i have done this with my best friend and we are still friend it worked out great
If your ready and he's ready then take a chance and don't ever look back

ati5870
November 25th, 2010, 08:10 PM
Yes, I've done the exact same thing before.

Jstr
November 25th, 2010, 08:33 PM
I'm not saying NO.. but just be careful with a friend. It will change things and prob not for the better. I know your curious but just make sure you want to take that chance.

Peace
-J



i totally agreee

Jonathan M
November 25th, 2010, 10:32 PM
I would do it but i havent

ccrunner
November 25th, 2010, 10:33 PM
Depends and no I havent

brandon.t
November 30th, 2010, 04:08 PM
would if i got the chance :)

bluedude97
November 30th, 2010, 05:28 PM
i wouldn't but if you wanna do it go for it. :D
i HAVE done it, but ehh. that was in the past.:mad:

hallo
November 30th, 2010, 10:29 PM
just a question on this becuase i have a kind of similar problem.
Are all of you staright or gay?
Just wondering becuase i wanted to know if your doing these things becuase your gay or just because it doesnt bother you and you just wanted to see what its like

GamerCody
November 30th, 2010, 10:36 PM
Yes and yes :). But only if you are both comfortable with it.

happyascanbe
December 1st, 2010, 08:59 PM
Perhaps And No.

connorfla
December 4th, 2010, 06:41 PM
yes you should and yes i have its fun and feels good

ccrunner
December 4th, 2010, 07:04 PM
Yes and no

abcd1234
December 4th, 2010, 11:57 PM
i would just to get experience ya know
but i never have
actaully i don't think i would know either way until i was put on the spot

Black Eight
December 5th, 2010, 12:01 AM
I definitely would.

SwimTech
December 14th, 2010, 12:26 AM
I would do it. The most that I have ever done was me and my friend jacked each other off. I love having sleepovers like that. As long as it wont affect your friendship, and neither of you will regret it, go for it.

howyoudoin93
December 14th, 2010, 01:45 AM
do it if you want, don't if you don't! Just have fun and be safe!

Tristin.
December 14th, 2010, 02:09 AM
i would, but thats just me, do what you want to do :)

Jamarama
December 14th, 2010, 08:09 AM
Yeah and Yeah.

Just go for it :p

curiousboy333
December 14th, 2010, 08:28 AM
i would do it. im curious and probs even do some anal giving and recieving. i havent but would love too. im totally str8 though

Nazi
December 14th, 2010, 09:27 AM
Its up to you man

Dimitri
December 14th, 2010, 11:12 AM
I would do it but be careful because you do hab=ve the final say in what goes on because it is your body

IbCrazy
December 14th, 2010, 02:10 PM
It isn't weird to do these things. It sounds like you are uncomfortable with going farther than j/o and simple things like that. You need to make sure that he knows what you are willing to do so that you dont get forced into something.

Sean the Griffin
December 14th, 2010, 07:10 PM
Yeh to both but its up to you I guess.

gooog34
December 14th, 2010, 07:27 PM
Just make sure you're comfortable with it. And if you're paranoid about doing it or receiving it then you can't really enjoy it :P

Don't push yourself to do anythign U don't wanna :)

Shenron
December 14th, 2010, 07:28 PM
Yes I would, yes I have, and yes I would do it again.

abcd1234
December 15th, 2010, 06:48 PM
i did and it was that bad.
obviously it feels better when its done on you. if u don;t want to do it and he still will give u a bj, i would let him

Wicked_Syn
December 15th, 2010, 07:25 PM
So let me get this straight, he just randomly said that. So you guys can do "sexual stuff"? That sounds kinda creepy lol

Mikey_bishop
December 15th, 2010, 09:44 PM
I guess I might, but never have. Just be careful that you dont ruin a freindship or risk your buddy spreading things about you in school. You wouldnt want a day of fun to make your life miserable.

matthewperry
December 19th, 2010, 06:40 PM
i would
and i have

mach5
December 19th, 2010, 10:02 PM
i would totally do this

VeniVidiVici
December 21st, 2010, 03:24 AM
i think things like this are awkward to plan, Like its not like "hey, we should suck eachother off next time we chill?"

if you are not comfortable with it, dont do it.

But generally, things like that happen after experimenting gets more intense.

Fourth Dimension
December 21st, 2010, 03:47 AM
ive done hj and bj and it was no big deal just do what your comfortable with

astro
December 21st, 2010, 09:09 AM
I have done it... But I sort of regret it...

Mikey9444
December 21st, 2010, 12:21 PM
YEs and yES

Mandala
January 14th, 2011, 05:36 PM
I would but i havent

fpums
January 15th, 2011, 03:04 AM
it's all fun.
I say go for it, but if you feel uncomfortable or want to stop do so.
But it's the best.

Patrick_Pav
January 18th, 2011, 03:05 AM
I would definitely do it :) and yes, I've done it before.

speedoboy
January 18th, 2011, 08:37 PM
the most important thing here is to do what you're comfortable with, don't just suck him of because you still want to be his friend.

I would depending on the type of relation ship you have with him. If you guys joke around alot I might just beauces it's be more fun and less serious. For me it all depeneds on who it is with weather I'll try something with them becuse I don't want someone to tell people what I did without me letting them.

Really it's all up to you we don't know you or your friend well enough to make a decision for you.

Coolcat1314
February 24th, 2011, 10:05 PM
I would do it! I'm straight but curious and i thinkcif you think thats what you want to do then go for it but ig your not comfortable doing it it will just be auckward

Riku
February 25th, 2011, 12:09 AM
Make sure you like them if you decide to. Dont just settle for them.

war-fougt-in-a-boy
February 25th, 2011, 04:18 AM
Maybe. And no

whodatbe
February 27th, 2011, 10:56 AM
if you're uncomfortable with it, don't do it just tell him straight up that your into some of that stuff but not what he wants to do

jrl1996
February 27th, 2011, 03:21 PM
ehmm just if both want but a little too far...

danmanlott
February 27th, 2011, 03:21 PM
....

ilo2011
February 27th, 2011, 03:36 PM
I would do it, I have never done that with my best friend and if it every came up sure. I'm straight/curious.

Sogeking
February 27th, 2011, 04:48 PM
Probably and no.

kylek97
February 27th, 2011, 04:55 PM
I have done it... its fun, but its up 2 u... dont do it if ur not comfortable

Sebastian Michaelis
February 27th, 2011, 05:54 PM
If he is a true friend he will not overly pressure you into doing this. Your best option is to tell him that you aren't 100% comfortable doing this. Maybe you two could work towards that goal if you want to or you can let things fall where they may. Also, you need to understand the risks you are taking.

sdude
February 27th, 2011, 06:31 PM
I have tried it with a friend, but only kind of on a dare, and only for a minute. It's totally up to you, I would probably do it again, with a guy I felt comfortable with...idk...

cboy91
February 28th, 2011, 12:53 AM
If you're uncomfortable, then don't do it. I've done it and it was nice, and it doesn't make you gay if that's something you're worried about.

screammonster123
March 13th, 2011, 09:49 PM
i have not done with but i am sure it is okay if you both are comfortable with it

JoshJ
March 13th, 2011, 09:51 PM
As long as youre okay with it sure! and i would.

skichris
March 14th, 2011, 06:14 PM
only go as far as your comfortable, never do something to impress someone, if its not for you..

CestDan
March 14th, 2011, 08:38 PM
I have jacked off with friends, but yeah, surely I'd go for some fun too

Coolcat1314
March 18th, 2011, 05:25 AM
Dude i would so do this im straight but so curious and i wish i had a friend that would be so open and say it like that. That would make it so much easier

oreolover
March 18th, 2011, 04:23 PM
ya i agree with sam b. its really up to u bro

ConfusedDude
March 20th, 2011, 05:07 PM
I would for the experience and the bonding. You would probably be closer after it but use protection if you do. Blow jobs still need protection

itsthat0n3kid
March 20th, 2011, 05:13 PM
no and no. but some friends have done it and they said it was cool.
im not sure about it but if you feel like you want to then hey, go all for it

absdude
March 20th, 2011, 05:40 PM
you have to think about it and handjob and analiing are already sexual enough

SylvioUltima
March 20th, 2011, 06:56 PM
Why does everyone think theres a difference between jacking off eachother, and giving eachother blowjobs? Dont get it. Personally I would think its fun and be all for it. If you think that makes you gay, your probably not gay. Go for it, and have some fun. Hope that helps.. :)

kMan137
March 20th, 2011, 08:36 PM
Yea an nope

Max2000
March 21st, 2011, 04:10 AM
Never turn down a blow job if they are cute and clean.

dretreyt1
March 23rd, 2011, 07:03 PM
im straight
blowjobs yea and yea
fingering no and NO

eatthis9999
March 23rd, 2011, 07:10 PM
At the end of the day its your choice, i wouldnt but its a matter of preference.

Fish813
March 23rd, 2011, 07:14 PM
I may, depending on the person. Got offered once, turned down, but i have done group, fun ;). But do what your comfortable with.

rusty171610
March 23rd, 2011, 08:42 PM
Well Ive never been in that position but I would definetly jack each other off n blowjob i reckon fingering is the most sexual, but i would still give it a go. If both of you want to do it. Go for it, it would be heaps fun.

Brandon K
March 23rd, 2011, 08:44 PM
i have lol