does she like me

[Bmatlman]

ok so some people at school have been telling me that this girl likes me. im not to sure on this though. can someone tell me how i can tell if she likes me.
thanks. just ask if you have any other questions

[Ender]

Ask her?

[Bmatlman]

well there is a problum. she is popular and im not.

[Ender]

Try not to ask her when she is with friends, try to get her when she is alone.

[Patchy]

This isn't puberty related moved to Relationships and dating.

[Bmatlman]

yeah but at my school if you ask or tell anyone anything everyone knows in 10 min. im serious about that. could some one give me some signs mabie?

[laurita_21]

Just say you heard it's a rumor and ask her if it's true or not, if she says no then just act cool or act like it doesn't bother you. Good luck :P

[Heisen8erg]

If you have any classes with her try to glance at her every now so, and if you notice she looks at you then she probably likes you. If she isnt then try coughing or something, to remind her your there. If she still doesnt look then she might now like you. Also try to hang around her more, and see if she blushes when your around. Also try making small conversation with her and see how she reacts. Let me know how you do, good luck :)

[Amnesiac]

Put on your coolface and ask. It's not that hard.

[bmxkid313]

if you look at her and she is looking at you it means your worth looking at, if she looks away fast then she didn't want you to she her looking at you, if you walk past each other in the halls does she look at you then look down really fast? these are all signs she may like you

[Amnesiac]

if you look at her and she is looking at you it means your worth looking at, if she looks away fast then she didn't want you to she her looking at you, if you walk past each other in the halls does she look at you then look down really fast? these are all signs she may like you

Or you could just be overreacting to what could be nothing at all. Trust me, sometimes they're not actually looking at you, it's best not to take little things like this seriously.

[Vkid]

is she making an effort to talk to u and see you?

does she hold eye contact when ur talking?

does she sit/stand close to you?

does she brush agaisnt you or touch ur shoulder or something when u talk?

is she playful or laughing alot with you?....or really shy and quiet/blushing?

or u cud just ask her...?

[Bmatlman]

is she making an effort to talk to u and see you? nto that much but we only have one class together. she is with her friends.

does she hold eye contact when ur talking? yes it seems like it

does she sit/stand close to you? kinda, kinda not. she sits with friends

does she brush agaisnt you or touch ur shoulder or something when u talk? well when we do sit by each other and she is either faceing me or next to me her foot/leg always ends up brushing against mine.

is she playful or laughing alot with you?....or really shy and quiet/blushing? she is a playfull person with every one.

or u cud just ask her...? never ask in my school. trust me. everyone will find out and over react.

[laurita_21]

or u cud just ask her...? never ask in my school. trust me. everyone will find out and over react.

Well then you'll never know. Is it really that bad? What exactly are people going to say? Stop worrying so much about what people are going to think. Just ask if you really want to know!

[bmxkid313]

you could get one of your friends to ask

[Kitty Purry]

Hmmm i know this sounds kinda bad, but maybe its a joke? I dont know thats just a thought;). For me its preety obvious when someone likes me i just "know". But its not tthat way for everyone, so does she make eye contact alot with you?( thats one of the key ways to know if someone likes you) Does She want to hang out with you alot? Do you ever text? Does she ever ask you for hugs? Stuff like that is a sign that she likes you! lol ^_^ hope i helped.

[Bmatlman]

well i dont think its a lie since one of the people that told me has no resson tol ie about that to me and is also not friends with other people. she does seem to make eye contact and she does seem to be looking in my direction until i look then she turns back to where teacher is. the only people behind me are some girls that are always paying atention to the teacher. also there is this guy that it seems like every one in my class hates. so yeah.

[bmxkid313]

Hmmm i know this sounds kinda bad, but maybe its a joke? I dont know thats just a thought;). For me its preety obvious when someone likes me i just "know". But its not tthat way for everyone, so does she make eye contact alot with you?( thats one of the key ways to know if someone likes you) Does She want to hang out with you alot? Do you ever text? Does she ever ask you for hugs? Stuff like that is a sign that she likes you! lol ^_^ hope i helped.

i just wanted to add to this a little, when you are texting if she responds quickly than she is interested in the conversation, if you end the conversation before her then she wants to talk to you also does she text you first or do you text her, if she texts you the majority of the time she wants to talk to you. when you talk in person if she looks around she is not very interested in the conversation, also when talking another sign of interest is her pupils, her pupils will dilate or get bigger if she is interested. also if you are standing she will slowly lean towards you or you could take a step closer and see if she backs up if she does then she is shy or doesn't like you. also if you are in class and she is making direct eye contact with you it means that its worth turning my head to look at you. if any person looks at you for a second or more chances are they are thinking something, you can get a hint of what they are thinking by the expression on there face, if she is smiling it is probably good if her face is scrunched up its a sign of disgust and therefor probably bad. one of the biggest things two people do is "eye tag" that's when they are looking at you, you look at them and they quickly turn away then they look at you and you turn away, then it goes on until somebody stops looking at the other person.

[Bmatlman]

thanks. ill try to pay more attention too what she does on monday in class. really thanks alot guys. if you have anything else too post then please do.

[bmxkid313]

yea just make sure to remember cause when i first found those things out i always for got because i was always happy to be talking to them.

[Bmatlman]

yeah im pretty forgetful but luckly i can remember moments pretty well sometimes. depends on how long ago they happend. i know ill write on my hand what i need to remember! lol

[bmxkid313]

yeah im pretty forgetful but luckly i can remember moments pretty well sometimes. depends on how long ago they happend. i know ill write on my hand what i need to remember! lol

good idea just write it small on the inside of your hand so there is less chance she will see it also if there is a notebook you carry all the time on the back page you can just write down when you talked to her if she seemed interested who she was with and for how long then maybe you will see a pattern

[Bmatlman]

yeah ill just write notes about what happens when we talk in notebook.

[bmxkid313]

yeah ill just write notes about what happens when we talk in notebook.

yea thats all you really have to do because there is no way you would be able to remember every detail of every conversation

[Bmatlman]

yeah i can only remember what ive seen. and if she doesnt like me well i dont have to be to disipointed cause i mostly am just curiuos. sure ill be pretty let down though but still. ok vary let down :(

[bmxkid313]

don't worry about it when i tried to talk to the girl Samantha didn't reply i wanted to crawl in a hole and never come out but when i woke up i didn't really care mostly because i put myself out there and went for it

[Bmatlman]

yeah i know. thats probubly how i will fell.

[bmxkid313]

yeah i know. thats probubly how i will fell.

well i got over it really quick

[Bmatlman]

yeah for me ill most likely go crawl up in a hole for a day or two than ill be right back to normal.

[bmxkid313]

well hopefully it wont be a day or two chances are you will wake up and not really care like i did. but with that attitude i don't think you will get far with her BE CONFIDENT

P.S. i just got 100 posts lol :)

[Bmatlman]

yeah iknow i should be a little more confident. also i was just thinking that some of my friends acuse me of flirting alot. i really dont relize im flirting though im just acting normal in my eyes. now compared to this one kid who tries to flirt and gets on all the girls nerves im pretty normal id say cause i dont get on any ones nerse it seems like unless i try to. what do you think i should do try and flirt a little less or cotinue as i am.

also congrates on 100th post.:woot:

[bmxkid313]

just stay they way you are i dont know what girls would prefer but i like girls that are flirty but no so flirty that if i was going out with them that they would be creepin on other guys

[Bmatlman]

yeah me too. that seems to happen alot at my school. there is also one girl who this one guy called a whore for rejecting him and yet all her friends say thats she is a whore. yet almost every one at the school seemed to be made at that one kid for calling her a whore.

[bmxkid313]

yea i would be made at him to

[Bmatlman]

yeah i was kinda mad exspesiacly since he had horrible resons for her to be a whore. its just kinda das that all her friends are saying that she is a whore yet the were mad at him for calling her a whore which kinda seems hypocritical. owell. so now what?

[bmxkid313]

i dont know should we let this one die or keep it going?

[Bmatlman]

well i guess we could just let it kinda sit there till i have some news. unless you want to talk about random stuff.

[Bmatlman]

well today i didnt notice much but we were also busy working with partners and we had to pay attenton with our partners. also there is this other girl that rides my bus that might like me. i was holding door at front of school and as she was comeing she kept on looking in the other direction. could that mean something. she seems to do that alot in the mornings.

[bmxkid313]

well if you got to choose parteners you should have been parteners with her. and for the girl on your bus, you can look back to my other post of ways to know if she likes you. in the mornings when she looks in a differant direction does she smile some or maybe she is just looking at something, you can tell if she is looking slightly down to either side, or her nose is pointed one way and her eyes another, this may mean that she is shy around you. also another good tip is, girls will turn their head slightly to one side to let you see their face. if yo look at pics of some celebrities they do this too.

[Bmatlman]

we didnt get to choose. as for girl on bus im not to sure if she smiles. she just seems to be turning er head in random directions except mine. she does seem to be kinda looking at me though some of the time when she does do that.

[bmxkid313]

we didnt get to choose. as for girl on bus im not to sure if she smiles. she just seems to be turning er head in random directions except mine. she does seem to be kinda looking at me though some of the time when she does do that.

well then chances are she might like you

[Bmatlman]

ok thanks.

[bmxkid313]

when she looks around does she look left right left right again and keep crossing over you?

[Amnesiac]

when she looks around does she look left right left right again and keep crossing over you?

Sigh.

You guys make way too much out of people glancing around a room. It means nothing 99% of the time.

[Bmatlman]

when she looks around does she look left right left right again and keep crossing over you?
well she look right down right left right left. im to the right.
Sigh.

You guys make way too much out of people glancing around a room. It means nothing 99% of the time.

its not in room and there is more too it. dont just read first and last posts and just asume stuff

[bmxkid313]

well if she is looking at you then you would probably be able to notice

[Bmatlman]

yeah im pretty sure she is looking at me. she has long hair that makes it hard to see her eyes some times.

[Amnesiac]

its not in room and there is more too it. dont just read first and last posts and just asume stuff

I've read the thread and it just doesn't seem like there's anything really going on. It's important not to get your hopes too high — the higher they get, the harder the fall if it turns out she doesn't like you. Sure, there's a chance this girl might like you, but nothing can be confirmed or even hinted at from the info you've provided. If you really want to know, ask.

[Bmatlman]

not much happend today. closest thing to something is when the girl got off the bus she looked at me and smiled. also ive dicided that the first girl didnt like me.

[bmxkid313]

not much happend today. closest thing to something is when the girl got off the bus she looked at me and smiled. also ive dicided that the first girl didnt like me.

did she smile like she wanted to say hi without verbally saying hi or was it more of a smile because she might like you? also smiling is the most basic form of flirting

[Bmatlman]

im not sure witch it is. it didnt seem like the non-verbal hi one though.

[bmxkid313]

im not sure witch it is. it didnt seem like the non-verbal hi one though.

then maybe she likes you. ask her

[Bmatlman]

ok ill try to monday. no promises though. im really shy.

[dmeek7]

is she making an effort to talk to u and see you? nto that much but we only have one class together. she is with her friends.

does she hold eye contact when ur talking? yes it seems like it

does she sit/stand close to you? kinda, kinda not. she sits with friends

does she brush agaisnt you or touch ur shoulder or something when u talk? well when we do sit by each other and she is either faceing me or next to me her foot/leg always ends up brushing against mine.

is she playful or laughing alot with you?....or really shy and quiet/blushing? she is a playfull person with every one.

or u cud just ask her...? never ask in my school. trust me. everyone will find out and over react.

Holding eye contact doesnt necessarily mean she's into you. the sign that could mean she is into you is that when she makes eye contact she smiles also, and plays with her fingers.

When you say she brushes up against you with her leg/foot....girls definately are able to brush their body against you without meaning anything. It could just mean that she isnt repulsed by you and isnt afraid to touch you. a sign you could look for in the touching area is that if you talk to her or tell her a joke and she laughs, she will put her hands on your arm and chest or back excesivly.

My school has the same problem about gossip. our school is 200 strong :D, and rumors spread like wildfires. but you could ask her in private.

[Bmatlman]

My school has the same problem about gossip. our school is 200 strong :D, and rumors spread like wildfires. but you could ask her in private.

yeah mine is 976 strong and anything is spread through the whole by the end of the day. even sworn secrets seem to spread in days. also i dont know were to find privete to talk to anyone at my school. cant after cause the people that go to my school come from a 7 mile radius around my school.

[Bmatlman]

:bump:
i hate christmas breack right now cause now i cant see any of the girls. even the ones that are my friends. also +1 more girl. one of my friends has been teling that "this chick likes you" aparently the chick is one of his friends.

[jockboy14]

ok so some people at school have been telling me that this girl likes me. im not to sure on this though. can someone tell me how i can tell if she likes me.
thanks. just ask if you have any other questions

talk to one of her best friends and she can tell you what shes thinking and whatnot. she will also help you out in asking her out and such. girls love to match make and do all that mushy crap to make couples.

[Bmatlman]

:bump:
woohoo im still a spinless weakling when it comes to asking a girl if she likes me. ill post again when i finily do something.

[foreveryoung22]

Maybe take note of how she acts around you... and work up the guts to talk to her...?

[Bmatlman]

i try but i always get distracted with the our conversations.

[Bmatlman]

well this one girl that my locker is next to payed for me to go to the basketball game so i could see her and the drill team perform. what do you people think.

[Bmatlman]

ok so i have a speach impediment so i go to a speech therapy class and so does the girl i talked about in the post above (i also gave up on the other girls.) and its just been me and her for this year and yesterday after speech my teacher stopped me and wispered to me that valentines day was comeing up soon. weird owell. plz tell me what you think about what i sadi in the las post.

[Bluesman]

Ask her... just find a casual way to do it. If I'm talking to a girl and I think she likes me I'll ask if she's flirting with me when she says something cute or something like that. If she says maybe or yes or something of that sort it probably means that she likes you. That's just what works for me... however with my girlfriend it was 3:30 in the morning when I asked her out so I was just like fuck this I love you... I guess my point is just ask her, thats the only way to know for sure.

[Bmatlman]

i want to ask her but it might seem okward to her and then we wont talk very much and then we wont talk at all. im sorry if it seems like im being against the point of this it just i over think everything and think of everything that could go wroung.

[Bmatlman]

oh yeah valitines day is comeing up. im going to ask the girl out. or atleast i hope. we are also haveing a spring dance in march. i hope to go to dance also.

[Bmatlman]

well i didnt ask her out cus i didnt have a good chance. but yesterday will i was takeing to her this kid came up from behind us and yelled at me stop flirting with her and ask her out, witch just made it okward. also two of my friends are going around around and asking out random girls, who i dont know nor do they no me, out to the dance for me. plz if you have any advise of insperational speakings for me please tell me some.

Thanks!

[Bmatlman]

:Bump:

wow can I even still bump this its been so long since I've been on. Any way's I finnaly found out that the girl does like me but get this. She doesnt want to start dating till next year. Oh and one of her friends also likes me and told me but she also knew i liked that first girl so she said that she will try to stop likeing me cause she wants to let me honour her friends wishes. fml