Am I Bi?

[extremist21]

Okay. So I am in love with this girl. I would have sex with her. and find her attractive. but, I find men physically attractive. I would never date one though. I am 14. All I used to watch was gay porn. Now I watch straight porn. Sometimes it takes longer for me to get attracted physically to a chick,but it does happen sometimes. Whenever i think of having a relationship with a guy I think I couldn't do it and would never do it. When I think of a relationship with women it makes sense in my head and I would do it. Please Help.

I am a guy

Please don't double post.

Chief

[sCa45]

I think you're just curious..nothing to freak out over.

[nick]

You havent actually said whether you would like to do anything sexual with a guy. Just watching gay porn doesnt make you gay or bi. If you really could never have a relationship with a guy then you are just curious.

[Tristin.]

you sound curious, just because you like some guys, doesnt make you Bi or gay, it just means your curious. :)

[Alexithymia]

Like the other posters said, you just sound curious. If you can see yourself with another guy, then you could be bi. However, you said you can't so it doesn't seem like you could be. Don't freak out about being gay. It doesn't rule your life, it's only an addition.

[extremist21]

I would consider having sex with a guy, but I don't think I could ever be in a relationship with one. I mean sometimes when I look at guys I get turned on, but don't think about relationships/ dating. When I look at girls, sometimes I see just a relationship at first but then gradually in time I become sexually attracted to the girl. The first porn I ever started watching, EVER, was gay porn. In fourth grade. Do you just think I am curious? or its just hormones? Idk. It is really depressing for me to think about spending my whole life with a guy, it just doesn't click.

[Skorupski]

I think you're probably just curious. I was the same but then I started kind of a little seeing myself dating a guy so I know I'm bi. But I'm pretty sure you're just curious.

[SamB]

to me it just sounds like your curious.

[Donkey]

Being gay/bi includes emotional attraction to those of the same sex as well as physical. Hormones in puberty are very strong, blah blah blah... basically this is extremely normal and nothing to worry about - no need to label yourself until you're sure (after puberty)