I dont know what to do!

[Skorupski]

I am 16 and am mostly gay but with moderate attraction to girls. I've never had an encounter with the same sex and I feel like i'm stressing out about it. I just don't know how to make something happen.

[Cookiesandmilk]

just relax and let the boat float its self before you sink it with stress...just take your time you have your whole life still ahead of you

[Tristin.]

well, are you desperate fo ex? or would you rather wait?
just use your gaydar (if you got one) to find other gays, if so work from there, if not umm:

if your out:just search, ask etc
if not out: try seacrhing, go to places where gays hang out in washigton

im realy not toos ure how to help, i hope i have though
need anymore help just ask
x

[JuJu92]

I adivise you stop trying to rush the process but rather let things fall into place. I'm not sure how old you are and in which setting you are as well. If your a high school students chances are that unless your out to everyone and some one in that crowd just happens to be gay/bi then your going to have a hard time finding some one with whom you can expiriment with. Most High school students are closet up for various most obvious reasons.

Now if your a college/UNI student or will be given some time. Then the accessability is quite simple, find out whose into guys. Using one of two things, intuition (not the safest way to go) or by asking around. Try approaching LGBT clubs and associations, most colleges have those. Then get to know the guy invite him over and let the pieces fall into place on their own.

[Harley Quinn]

I am 16 and am mostly gay but with moderate attraction to girls. I've never had an encounter with the same sex and I feel like i'm stressing out about it. I just don't know how to make something happen.

There's nothing to stress yourself about, at the end of the day your 16 and you have plenty of time to find someone. You have encounters everyday with someone who is a potential partner now or in the future, but you may not see it that way when walking past someone. Depending on what sort of encounter you personally want, it will happen in time anyway, there is no reason to rush things forward and get things out of the way when all you need to do is relax and go with the flow. Get yourself out there, get recognised, talk to people, get involved and you never know what could happen. There's a million possiblities out there, you just have to find them. You can't force it to happen, you can but it would probably be a mistake and you'd probably regret it later, but you just need to wait it out and I'm sure someone will come along and swoop you off your feet :)

[sildavin]

just relax and let the boat float its self before you sink it with stress...

Couldn't have been said any better. + rep for you!

Anyway. yeah. Just chill. Everything will work out when its supposed to. Stress sucks and it only makes things worse. stress about stuff you need to stress about :)

[Skorupski]

Thank you everyone for helping me! I am not stressing out about it so much and I am going to just go with it and whatever happens happens!