What to do?

[hotandgay]

ok so tomorrow my mom expects me to help finish cooking but she is hard to work with...i do what she says then she snaps on me...what i am asking is how can i tell her what she is doing with out her getting even more mad...ooo and she will say she is snapping because she is sick...but i kno she isnt that sick anymore...how would you tell your mom...oh and she likes to talk about depressing stuff how can i ask her to stop?

[Tristin.]

im not really sure, i never see my mother, but i see the staff, and the cook sometimes snaps but only if i do something wrong, sooo.... im not really sure how to help

you could just explain to her that you nkow she isnt sick and that if she continues to snap you wont help her, come to a compramise (I)
:)

[Harley Quinn]

If your mum likes to talk about depressing things, you may not like it, but she's talking to you. Listen to her, help her out, she obviously trusts you if she wants to talk. As for the cooking and snapping, maybe she isn't all the sick anymore, even a little sickness can make someone agitated and snappy. I know that I can be towards my parents when they piss me off, and most of the time they tolerate it. You have to tolerate it, she's your mother afterall.


As for telling her about it, sit her down and talk to her calmly, going in all guns blasing snapping at her won't help your cause at all. Tell her that you find it hard to work with her at times as she can seem a little edgy and snappy, and that if she could be a little more patient with you it would be better. Being patient is the key to every communication whether friendship, relationship, or even family bonding. You can't get anywhere if you don't talk to each other about what you feel. If talking doesnt work, write everything you want to say to her down on paper, and then give it to her to read.