Askin gurls out

[theman101]

Whats the best way to ask gurls out?

Plz help

[JohnFused]

i used to do this so here it goes.

1. write a charming letter to her
2. wait for her to ask you out ( if she likes you)
3. just come up to her and say Hey (insert name) wanna go to (place here) sometime?


:P (my calling card)

[silver anne]

ummm sometimes that dosent work cuase yeah its to hard to explain

[-Adam-]

one problem with the second one, most girls dont ask guys out... i learned that already lol and girls that think the guy should be the only one to ask someone out

[mRojas2000]

:lol: Really... girls NEVER ask out... I don't even think they'll do it if they love the guy to death...

Just do it man :), when you think's the perfect moment, do it :razz:

[Octo22]

:lol: Really... girls NEVER ask out... I don't even think they'll do it if they love the guy to death...

Just do it man :), when you think's the perfect moment, do it :razz:


hmm, I sort of agree. Girls wont ask you out, but they're version is making it plain and damn obvious they want you to ask them out.

Like if they snuggle up against you, It's pretty freakin obvious.

[DomSoulWraith]

lol I agree, but I don't know if ALL girls will "snuggle up against you". You probably should just establish a friendship, THEN ask her out at the perfect(or closest to perfect) time. After you do that..........may the force be with you luke(or whatever your name is).

[-Adam-]

and if girls ask if your going to ask her out like her best friend or something just say maybe and maybe a couple days later wait for her to be alone or just walk next to her in between classes and ask ( dont screw up like i did... sigh )

[iluvlamp1414]

ok i found two problems with that statement :p.
1. we all know girls wont ask a guy out (i know this freakin sucks)
2. letters are the worst thing ever

if your gonna ask a girl out. just man up for a minute and ask her. if she says no... then thats too bad... life moves on and you'll find another :).

i usually get a good friendship goin with a girl before i make any moves. if i really like her then ill continuously give her nice compliments and sweet talk her. i will do this until she wants to go out with me. once im certain she'll say yes, i ask her out. its a simple process but can be pretty long sometimes.

[aryadorable]

well im not a guy but....
being a girl and all i could list some posible ideas that could help.


-we girls are atracted to romantic things..
so mabey by a cute letter or E-mail.

-we like to hang out ALOT
so mabey inviting her to the movies with some friends
and trying to get to know her a bit more.

-and well if the girl is anything like me
id sugest the old what are you doing saturdaynight thing...
like "hey (her name) what are you doing saturday night"....blah blah " would you wanna go out for a/an/the (were you wanna go/do)


that probly shoulddo it?

[iluvlamp1414]

right there was good advice from the girl point of view. id try her's first.