View Full Version : ALWAYS on my mind
bmxkid313
November 23rd, 2010, 05:27 PM
so there's this girl in school her name is Samantha and shes really pretty for the past week or so she is all i think about i mean its driving me insane because no matter what in doing were i am or who im with i think about her. i think she might like me to and to me thinking she likes me doesn't seem like that crazy of a thought so what should i do? and im shy
if you want you can read more about samantha and why i like her
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=88328
Amnesiac
November 23rd, 2010, 08:58 PM
Dude, I feel your pain. I've had my mind stuck on a girl for the past week too, and its painful as fuck, yet my situation is nowhere near as optimistic as yours.
I think the best route would be to tell her your feelings. It can't hurt to do it, sure it might be awkward, but that's the price of starting a relationship. Maybe, if you look at it from a different perspective, you'll get over the shyness — it's best to have a "fuck everything, I've got nothing to lose" attitude when you do it. But don't get all cocky.
bmxkid313
November 23rd, 2010, 10:21 PM
thanks that helps a lot and it is painful but i like the fuck everything attitude im going to remember that next time i talk to a girl
Vkid
November 23rd, 2010, 10:32 PM
shud totally just ask her out!
differentduck
November 23rd, 2010, 10:45 PM
I know what you are going through too.
Except in my case, it has been for a year. We are like, bestfriends, but you know.
Anyway, maybe give it a bit more time, and then maybe tell her, and maybe she will open up if she likes you back. Best of luck :)
Amnesiac
November 23rd, 2010, 10:59 PM
thanks that helps a lot and it is painful but i like the fuck everything attitude im going to remember that next time i talk to a girl
Okay, but remember, having a "fuck everything" attitude IS NOT the same as being an asshole. Be nice but confident.
hotandgay
November 23rd, 2010, 10:59 PM
ugh yeah i had the same feeling...
but i decided that it prolly would not work out (he was str8) so i decided to stop talking to him...and for you...i have to say is just go for it were put on this dreadful planet to risk things and to gain better things...
Aves
November 23rd, 2010, 11:10 PM
Been there. I had her stuck on my mind for a while. Trust me, it's better to tell her how you feel. I'd always rather know they'd say say no, then leave myself wondering to what could have been.
lost1
November 23rd, 2010, 11:22 PM
Dude, I feel your pain. I've had my mind stuck on a girl for the past week too, and its painful as fuck, yet my situation is nowhere near as optimistic as yours.
Amen to that, bro. I'm in the same boat.
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