confused confused .... :(

[Dunce]

Hey guys :P Ok right i'll just start by saying that I may be bisexual, or gay, although until I was about 14 I was straight, completely and definitely. I'm 17 and I have been sexually confused for 3 years.
I think I'm more attracted to girls initially, and the prospect of me falling for a girl seems way more likely than me falling for a boy. I'm in an all girls school, and dont hang around boys so I'm more comfortable with them.
I recognise when boys are attractive though, and I can get pretty flustered if a boy starts flirting with me but I dont see myself ever being with a boy, even though I want to be. I want to have a family, my own, with a father to my children who I love, but I dont see it.

Do you think I'm gay or just have a bad attitude towards boys?
I'm taking my time with this, exploring my sexuality can be fun.. even if it took 3 years for it to start being fun haha...

Is it possible that I may be questioning myself just like this for the rest of my life??

OH yeah I forgot to mention... I had a tiny crush on a girl recently, but when I started to come to terms with the feelings I had, the feelings went away... it happens all the time, especially with girls(seeing as I tend to go for them more)
Its quite annoying... and sometimes I think I may be asexual :/ hmmmm.... opinions anyone?


- Please don't double post ~ posts merged.

[ackmedsgirl666]

hmmm.. right now it sounds like you are just confused
me i had said i was a lesbian but now idk anymore because i recently had a fling with a guy and i quite enjoyed myself. anyways enuff about me this is your thread
i think your just going through a change right now that you cannot seem to grip and accept. its nuthing big and if u like girls then date girls
if you like biys date boys
if you like both or are experiementing you may be bi-curious
but if you are full on liking both you are probably bi
if u need anybody to talk to pm me and i can help you out
hope this helps

[Charleigh]

experiment babe x
find out what sex you feel comfortable doing things with. ask yourself this, can you imagine your self spending your life with a man? then ask yourself this, can you imagine yourself spending time with a girl? x
PM me if there is anything you need hun x

[Dunce]

Thanks guys, you both helped :) (im still confused, but i appreciate knowing that im not a FREAKAZOID ;))