Don't want any for myself?

[Fred]

Is this normal?
I have a girlfriend who I have recently started having sex with, and before that I fingered her and gave her oral sex countless times, but when it comes to me I just don't seem to want anything in return. Like, at all. She's already voiced the opinion that she doesn't like the idea of giving me oral, but I really don't want a hand job either, and she seems to be changing her mind about both. I am a little uncomfortable with my appearance 'down there', but mostly I just don't feel the urge for blowjobs and handjobs, and find the thought of them kinda unpleasant.

Does any other guy feel like this? If you do/did and received anyway, did it change your mind?

[Dark_Hellfire]

I havn't personally felt that way, but my mate was in the same boat as you. He had one or two hand jobs and it didn't do anything for him.

He just reassures his girlfriend that his desire is to please her. The sex is enough for him

[adam1995]

But you said you're having sex with her. If you're uncomfortable with your appearance "Down there" why is that okay?

[nick]

If receiving oral sex doesnt appeal to you that's fine, its your choice. It feels great, most guys would want to give it a try, but everyone has their preferences and its no big deal. I find it hard to imagine having sex without some hand work being included in the foreplay, maybe that's different and you just dont feel inclinded to bother with a handjob alone if you cant have sex.

The only word of caution I would add is that your girlfriend may end up feeling frustrated that she cant do anything for you and may worry that its because she's doing something wrong.

Dont worry about your appearence down there, I very much doubt that its anything unusual. If you girlfriend is happy with how it looks so should you be.

[LittleMonsterMike]

I know how you feel i'm more of a giver then a taker but i like just being with people like that it gives me enough

[JuJu92]

That's acceptable, lucky girlfriend you have. Most males and females are more takers than givers when it comes down to sex. She's fortunate that she has a boyfriend whose willing to please her every meassure possible. I've never met a guy who doesn't enjoy hand or oral stimulation but it's not to say there aren't any that don't. You just happen to be one of them :P Personally I'm not big on giving oral but I love recieving it :L

That's just me.

[CBTurner]

It just doesn't turn you on, that's normal. :)

[Apollo.]

Is it normal yeah for sure. Im pretty sure lots of girl'z will like that