MattH
November 22nd, 2010, 01:21 AM
This is my first real post on here, so be gentle.
I'm still in love with my Ex. We we're together for about four years and everything was going fantastically, we never argued, we had fun together, and I began to think she may even be "the one". Unfortunately her ex boyfriend stepped back into the picture out of know where one day. I didn't want to seem over-bearing so I never really put much thought to them being friends, I mean I'm still friends with former girlfriends of mine. Time went past and things began to become different between us we saw each other less and less, she was less willing to have an ongoing conversation with me. I finally confronted her about the recent changes and she told me that she always saw herself with the ex boyfriend and not me.
This happened about 8 months ago. I figured like past relationships I would feel the hurt and feelings for a while and then be able to to let it go, but this has not happened. The time we have spent apart seems to make me only want to be back with her more. I have tried multiple times to get into contact with her thinking it would bring closer but her unwillingness to talk to me is only making it worse.
What can I do to get over this? Time just isn't helping.
I'm still in love with my Ex. We we're together for about four years and everything was going fantastically, we never argued, we had fun together, and I began to think she may even be "the one". Unfortunately her ex boyfriend stepped back into the picture out of know where one day. I didn't want to seem over-bearing so I never really put much thought to them being friends, I mean I'm still friends with former girlfriends of mine. Time went past and things began to become different between us we saw each other less and less, she was less willing to have an ongoing conversation with me. I finally confronted her about the recent changes and she told me that she always saw herself with the ex boyfriend and not me.
This happened about 8 months ago. I figured like past relationships I would feel the hurt and feelings for a while and then be able to to let it go, but this has not happened. The time we have spent apart seems to make me only want to be back with her more. I have tried multiple times to get into contact with her thinking it would bring closer but her unwillingness to talk to me is only making it worse.
What can I do to get over this? Time just isn't helping.