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yadhamawe
November 21st, 2010, 04:18 AM
ok well today i was on a date with my gf and her cuzin cam along.so were at hottopic and i ask her wht she wants for christmas she tells me to wait and send me a text saying shes gonna give me head when we exchange gifts :) im happy but worried. am i too small? im 6.5 inches . do i cum in her mouth? im really small without a boner i dnt want her to see me like that what should i do please help :eek:
Harley Quinn
November 21st, 2010, 04:35 AM
You are above average size so you are totally normal. You dont have to cum in her mouth if you don't want to, you can if you want, it's up to you. Or you could ask her what she would prefer, but either way it doesn't really matter. As for you being small non erect, most guys are but, if you get yourself hard before, you could do it that way. Or you could let her make you hard, I really don't think she'll care tbh.
yadhamawe
November 21st, 2010, 04:44 AM
mah bad im 6 inches is that ok?
Harley Quinn
November 21st, 2010, 04:45 AM
That is also over average size, so yes that's okay :P
Redheads Rule
November 21st, 2010, 04:50 AM
Go for it!!!
ask her what she wants, your not a mind reader, pleasure comes from knowing what she wants.
Ask b4 you do it. You dont wanna be thinking about what your going to do the whole time ;)
Lightman
November 21st, 2010, 08:36 AM
Have the boner in front of her bet it'll suprise her lol and turn her on
U can do watever u want in a bj
Make sure u satisfy her too with an oral but ask first
If she agrees slowly go from mouth through her cleavage then her vag
devilsheep
November 21st, 2010, 02:05 PM
6 inches is fine bro
if it goes down and you know its gonna go down make sure to makeout and feel her up first so you can get yourself hard before she goes down for it. If she wants to go straight to the blowjob tell her youd rather makeout and fool around for abit just to get the mood going so it'll be better, which is true anyways never rush into things always start with kissing then proceed to the next things.
It should be a good experience, have fun
nick
November 21st, 2010, 02:13 PM
6.5" is quite big really, certainly above average. Not all girls want you to cum in their mouth, dont assume that and if you dont want to dont feel under any pressure. Most of us are small when flacid, but to be honest, the thought of what she is planning is likely to mean that wont be a problem. Anyway, a little hand action first would be normal. Also be aware that quite a few guys, and I'm one of them, find they cant cum from oral sex even though it feels fantastic, so if that happens to you its normal too and dont let it worry you.
One final thought, you really ought to be prepared to return the favour.
Bmatlman
November 21st, 2010, 02:23 PM
i wish i could be in that situation. any ways just watch her to see what she is doing and you can mostly tell what she wants to do. also mabie give a some sort of sigmle that your going to cum like say "ohh yeah here it comes" or "yeah there we go" or something like that. just like what nick said be ready to return the favor
maxii
November 21st, 2010, 04:51 PM
Yeah... Dont worry... She probly never seen one before, so he would'nt know if itz small or not
curious_boy
November 22nd, 2010, 12:12 AM
ehh you are fine...and ask her beforehand so the cum isnt a surprise
MoveAlong
November 22nd, 2010, 01:17 AM
Gotta say it's hilarious you were in Hottopic. Just randomly, hey, bj time for you later, while in hottopic. Y'know.
1. Your penis is of average size for an adult male. In fact, it's on the larger side of the size scale.
2. I would personally play it out and see how it goes with the whole "cumming on her" thing. I think it'd ruin the moment if you're like, "hey, is it okay if I cum on you or something?" Really? Just do whatever, and if she's indecisive, then do what you think is best!
3. So you're small when you're not hard. Won't she be impressed when she gets you going? No worries.
iLoveVball
December 23rd, 2010, 01:00 AM
yeah your penis is rather average ,maybe a bit larger, when i got a BJ recently i came in her mouth, but its all up to what she wants, when your about to cum simply ask what she wants to do with her white christmas package
CaliKiDD
December 23rd, 2010, 01:26 AM
your fine bro just get "excited" before she goes down :) and aske her where she wants you to cum dont just assume
TapDancer
December 23rd, 2010, 01:40 AM
nah, 6.5 is preety big, besides, most girls dont care anyway, you'll be alright
snk102892
December 23rd, 2010, 08:55 AM
your size is normal!
ccrunner
December 23rd, 2010, 11:31 AM
if you want it ask her what she wants so you dont ruin your relationship
if you dont say that you want to wait, its really important to you
teenboi14
December 29th, 2010, 07:56 PM
I'd do it.
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