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DumDiddley13
November 1st, 2006, 01:02 PM
ok, so, in sept. i met this girl (im a guy). we were attracted to eachother instantly. everyone could tell. a few weeks went by and i had mentioned my graduating middle school to her. keep in mind that age never came up in our convos. i just assumed she was my age. then she said that she was just going into sixth grade!!! i was shocked. she didn't/doesn't look like a 6th grader at alllll!!!! i was n still am upset about this. what should i do? i really had feelings for her but its SO AKWARD being that she is 3 yrs younger. i dont wanna hurt her either. can i have your oppinion please!!!!!

mRojas2000
November 1st, 2006, 01:08 PM
Age gap isn't huge... why would it really care???
If you really like her/love her, you shouldn't think about age, and her being "way" older than you... if she's worth it, don't leave her :)

megamikey59
November 1st, 2006, 10:07 PM
age doesn't matter..

Octo22
November 3rd, 2006, 12:50 AM
Age does matter. I personally can't stand people that say it doesn't.

When you're young it puts you both at very different times in your life, however if she's worth it, you'll accept this difference and work past it. It will be tough, but if you truely like this girl, it'll be worth it.

mRojas2000
November 3rd, 2006, 08:18 AM
Age doesn't matter as long as there's love, so stfu

-Adam-
November 3rd, 2006, 09:02 AM
if your both ok with it and dont care that there are gonna be some people thinkin is weird then go for it.... i personally would think itd be a little weird lol since that would be like one of my friends dating my sister ( same grades )

Octo22
November 3rd, 2006, 07:17 PM
Age doesn't matter as long as there's love, so stfu

Really? Love conquers all?

Even 40 year olds and 18 year olds?


Well if they love each other, I guess it doesn't matter.

It matters in whether or not they're in the same point in their lives, if they're willing to work past the difference in school / schedule and all that then it's worth it and true love.

You made it sound like I just said "age matters, love doesn't"

see? I can explain myself in more than one quick sentence ended with an insult. So stfu.

DomSoulWraith
November 5th, 2006, 03:11 PM
Wow, we all kind of think a like. I was going to say about what everyone else said so.........ditto.

Mrs. Mustache
December 20th, 2011, 10:40 PM
Think about married couples. Im not saying you will marry her. My mom is five years away from my dad. . . They fit together fine

Gschmidt247
December 22nd, 2011, 09:35 PM
If their old enough to bleed they're old enough to bleed. Jk If your not having sex it's all good.

letluvbleedred
December 22nd, 2011, 10:37 PM
Age does matter. I personally can't stand people that say it doesn't.

When you're young it puts you both at very different times in your life, however if she's worth it, you'll accept this difference and work past it. It will be tough, but if you truely like this girl, it'll be worth it.

i totally agree, age does make a big difference. Yes it can be over come.

Age doesn't matter as long as there's love, so stfu

Love? Really?? This girl is in sixth grade, r u even sure that this girl understands love in deepth, something even alot of adults dont even understand. What were u thinkin bout in sixth grade, because i sure wasn't think nothin like that.
Alot of people think they know bout love when they dont, thats why in relationships everyone always says i love you like three days in...

If u really LIKE (see how im not sayin love) her then go for it.
honestly though i dont believe in love but i hope this wasn't a bias opinion.

Good Luck with :love: