How did you meet your boyfriend (gay/bi guys)

[lenny774]

I always wonder how 2 guys meet. I wonder this cause i myself am bisexual but im afraid cause theres absolutely no openly gay/bi people at my school.

[Tristin.]

well i had a date today :D

he is in some of my classes and we are with each other in PE. it turns out we have both crushed on each other for 2 years :O :D

i hope this leads on to something more

and i hope this helps you XD

[lenny774]

awwwww congratulations. your so lucky :)

[Fourth Dimension]

i wish i could help you i seem to have the same troubles

[coleman8r 77]

i have the same troubles

[IMonfire]

Ditto.

[oscarRAWR]

Well... You always have your friends that are girls that know bi/gay guys, and you can meet through them OR Myspace, facebook... etc. Guys in your city that is your age.
But since you say there's no open gay/bi guys you have to go out there and investigate.

[sethned]

Well one of our friends introduced us. BY MISTAKE. He was supposed to introduce him to someone else. Best mistake ever :)

[Kitty Purry]

I acuatually met him here on VT, turned out he lived like a mile away from me ^_^ we hang out all the time now lol... :D

[Lifeguard18]

you can always try online. but just know that can also be dangerous too. i would talk to your friends to see if they know anyone who is bi or gay. there is this one guy i know who i went to school with a few years ago. we use to be awesome friends. he always had a girlfriend. and then i find out he is gay. we havnt talked in a while and ive been trying to get him to accept my request on facebook but he wont :( so im still trying. there are also many other ways too.

[ati5870]

I just asked my friends if they knew anyone that was bi (it helps if you have friends that are in different grades, and in different cliques) and one of them did and so i went and met him and he turned out to be really cute.

I acuatually met him here on VT, turned out he lived like a mile away from me ^_^ we hang out all the time now lol... :D

Thats so adorable! That never happens to me, I'll be like so where in MI are you from, and everyone is from like the furthest part of MI from me. LOL Fail.

[saxplayer9291]

I am having the EXACT same problem. Its like there are always guys that i have to look at that i have a crush on, but i know i can't have them. It sucks :(

[Parlement]

One of my friends (a girl) is friends with a gay guy. I'm thinking about asking her to introduce us to eachother, hoping it will build up to be something more. :D

Chances are that one of your friends knows somebody gay/bisexual. Just ask your friends and see if they want to introduce you to anyone.

[Liveoak]

This is only a suggestion (because my school unfortunately doesn't have one and probably never will) - ask the principal to help you form a LGBT club at school.

[Mewp]

I met my ex at a club. We ended up going home together and things grew from there. Amicable break because I was moving :p

[Parlement]

im afraid cause theres absolutely no openly gay/bi people at my school.

No openly gay/bi people at your school...? Well surely everybody in your school but you can't be straight. You just gotta use your "gaydar" and figure out some for yourself.

[Portable Desert]

I still have not found anyone :(

[Nelson]

I've had one : met over the internet through a friend...

[Parlement]

One of my friends met a guy through a wrong number text :P

I was like, AWWW HOW CUTE!!

[PAfarmerkid]

I have yet to find one also, even though I haven tbeen on the hunt for too long. I know there are other gay/bi guys out there, but I really dont want to date a guy from the same school as me, and Im also waiting to get my drivers license and get out and about and try to meat someone.

[swbboy]

I met my sortoff ex (it wasn't official) through a bi friend of ours (he didnt go to my school)
It was a mistake, because now his niece (who does go to my school) is now telling people im gay, and that makes me crazy because im not out in school
And looking back, he was kinda ugly xD

[Rainbows12]

Well and I am bisexaul :)..... but i dont want to come out because my dad does not like gay or bisexual people and another thing is there is no one that is bisexaul or gay at my school.... I am moving to holland and hoping that i am going to find some one.... I really want a boyfreind...... but i dont want it to go out... because my dad will like hate me.... I dont know what to do... :(

[Camazot]

join the club but for me its horrible thers this really hot guy i used to bo really really good friends with well he doesnt go to my highschool so we aren't as close anymore but in middle school and whenever we see eachother now hes always rubbing my leg or grabbing my ass or pretending to almost kiss me and it makes me go crazy because he says he's straight and the worst part is the last time i saw him he kept swiping his finger through my ass and i was going to kiss him but there was so many people around it sucked i really think he is bi curius but now he wont even talk to me and i havent done anything to him

[RavleIncarnate]

I have no-one and the only other LGBT guy in my school is my best friend and we are not interested in each other in that way. Life fucking sucks ass

[Emerald Dream]

I have no-one and the only other LGBT guy in my school is my best friend and we are not interested in each other in that way. Life fucking sucks ass

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