I hardly have any friends

[Blaster]

One year ago I lost almost all of my friends. I have tryed making new friends but with no success because I get really anxious when talking to someone.Everyone thinks that I'm crazy cuz I dont talk to anyone. :( I am a looner and I hate being one. I have no one to talk to and no one that I can trust. I don't know what to do... I just get really nervous and anxious when talking to someone. I have one or two friends but I hardly talk with them. Everyone in my school and family laughs at me because I have no friends. :( I just can't socialize.

[JuJu92]

Soz to hear about your loss, well one thing you should try doing as practice is socialising with relatives more so than ever, if you've got siblings try to talk to them more. Train yourself to feel confident when your conversing with some one. Conversations should be enlightful, fun, useful depending on the topic not a burden.

When you feel you've gained some confidence off of those exercises then try approaching people that look friendly. What activities/likings interest you? Search for clubs to join where you'll find people of the same interests as you, try volunteering places. Places that interest you, many volunteer oppurtunities have youth programs designated for teenagers.

[sCa45]

You just literally have to get over your anxiety and get out there and socialize. Confidence is very important, and life is too short to be shy.

[Philleeep]

If you want you can practice with me id be more than happy to be your friend and you can vent to me amytime but i will help you through this if you wish amd i cam get some of my friends too help you wish? Id love to help you.

[Blaster]

Thanks guys for trying to help me.
I have tryed so many times to make friends but I can't. I start shaking like crazy when I talk to someone. Maybe I really am crazy. I fail at life. :(

[Perseus]

Thanks guys for trying to help me.
I have tryed so many times to make friends but I can't. I start shaking like crazy when I talk to someone. Maybe I really am crazy. I fail at life. :(

You're not crazy. You're just nervous. That's understandable. I know this might sound silly, but talk to yourself in a mirror to build up your charisma so you can talk to people you don't know well without shaking.

[Blaster]

talk to yourself in a mirror to build up your charisma so you can talk to people you don't know well without shaking.

I'm gonna try that. Thanks.

[Philleeep]

you can talk too me aswell at
ill talk too anyone

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