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laugh-to-live
November 20th, 2010, 12:31 AM
I am so confused. I always feel alone. I can be with my friends yet I feel like I am alone, by myself. It seems like I have no one to talk to. I have moments where I am happy...but they aren't that often. I am not enjoying soccer and exercising anymore. I always seem to be annoyed with my friends. Get angry at them easily. I feel like I'm losing all of my friends. Any Help?

PoseidonX43
November 20th, 2010, 01:32 AM
having the same problem :(

CatchingOrigami
November 20th, 2010, 06:18 AM
Try spending some time alone taking it easy, go for a walk, do something personal; write in a journal, draw, whatever you feel like.
Sometimes its good to take some time out from your social life to think about what could be upsetting you.
Make sure you get a good amount of sleep, and eat healthily; this also helps.
It's perfectly normal to feel alone, even in social situations. It is very important for our species to have a social connection, but different people find that in different ways, some people prefer being independent.
Dont force anything :]

Mike321
November 21st, 2010, 01:34 PM
I sometimes feel the same way you do, always alone, and its rare that I get any really good days too.
Maybe try doing what Nina said, just take some time out to yourself and see if you can work out what it is that makes you feel that way and why you get angry at your friends
I dont really know what else to say, as I am sort of feeling the same as you.
Hope this helps

Kaya
November 21st, 2010, 08:28 PM
It could be deppression. You should talk to your doctor. I have depression and I get like that a lot.

Charleigh
November 22nd, 2010, 07:38 AM
it might be that your just on a downer at the min :l x
keep a diary over the next 6 weeks and write down how your feeling, why you think you might be feeling that day, whats went right and whats went wrong, and your thoughts. then after the 6 weeks if you think its something that needs to be checked, take it to your gp or doctor and get them to check you out. thats what they done to me :L x
it doesnt work for everyone, but just try it :) x
pm me if there is anything you need :) x

Nevermore
November 23rd, 2010, 08:39 AM
I don't think anyone can diagnose you here. However, it might be something you should bring up with your doctor. They might offer medication and other things to make you feel better.
However if your not interested in getting outside help, perhaps I can offer some advice. I like Charlie's idea about keeping a diary. Write down good things. Now I'm going to tell you to do something that is very hard to do at first. Every day think of three good things. I know it sounds silly. :3 It will help though. It will show you that there is good in your life, and make it bearable. It could be really stupid silly like I wore new shoes today. When you feel like this, make yourself feel good by doing things you love to do. I know you said your losing interest in things you love. If you don't mind me asking, has anything happened recently? If not try something new. It is always fun to do something new and exciting, something you've always wanted to do. Perhaps even taking a break from those things you listed that you've lost interest in, will bring back the spark. Make yourself feel pretty when your feeling down. Put on earrings, your favorite perfume, or paint your nails. You might feel better. Try not to focus on the bad but the good. I get annoyed with my friends too. To prevent this I remember the fun times with them. I try to focus on that. If you are getting annoyed try hanging out with new people for a bit. Taking breaks from friends can be a good thing. If you spend to much time with people they are bound to drive you crazy. When you get angry, this helps me, blast loud music and sing. I hope this helps. :) You are not alone!! PM me if you ever need someone to talk to.

sCa45
November 23rd, 2010, 03:28 PM
If you continue to tell yourself that's how you feel, then it won't stop. Be positive :)