could do with some advice

[wildchild]

i dont know if this is the right place for this but ah well. i got an american pen pal last year who was fluent in spanish to help me in my final year of school. we'd skype and he'd help me with spanish. we became really good mates so i decided to visit him in janurary. since then ive found out he is gay which i have no problem about. but recently ive found myself attracted to him, i dont understand as up until that point ive only liked girls so im really confused. i dont know if i should act upon my feeling while im over there as im only there for 2weeks. what should i do?

thanks:)

[ShatteredWings]

1. how old are you
2. acting on impulse tends to end badly.

[wildchild]

im 18 and so is he. like i know he isnt some fake person online trying to kidnap me, ive actually spoken to him over a webcam

[TopGear]

Hi and welcome to the forums!

There is nothing wrong with being curious which this is what it sounds like. Be smart, Don't do anything stupid that you might regret, especially this will be your first time meeting him in person. If you both are comfortable about it then fine, just don't do anything stupid.

Again welcome, good luck and safe travels!

~Drew

[wildchild]

yeah but one of the things i was worried about it was if i do go for it and it works out fine, what about when i have to go back to london?

[TopGear]

Well I guess you just go on with life and don't say anything about it or I guess you could tell someone?

~Drew

[ShatteredWings]

im 18 and so is he. like i know he isnt some fake person online trying to kidnap me, ive actually spoken to him over a webcam

i had figured you had, probably giving people too much credit but still.

i wasn't implying that though. More of the "jumping way to quickly"

[TopGear]

i had figured you had, probably giving people too much credit but still.

i wasn't implying that though. More of the "jumping way to quickly"

I would agree with that, I would wait, but thats just me. Do what you want, just be careful of it.