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Saturn
November 18th, 2010, 10:06 AM
Could you stay with one person throughout your entire teen life? I know some people who have been with the same person since they were 13 years old and now they are 16, 17, and 18 years old and still with the same person. I just find it rather odd I guess, since I have a new girlfriend every month, but still, I mean, staying with one person for that long, that's quite a commitment. Could you ever stay with someone from the age of 13 through all of high school or even the rest of your life?

Kaius
November 18th, 2010, 10:13 AM
If you're committed to that relationship there isn't a reason why you can't. I was with my ex girlfriend from when i was 14 until i had just turned 17. Had she not cheated on me we probably would still be together, but im a person that would rather stay in a long term relationship than a lot of short ones. My current girlfriend and i have been together for 10 months now, and for a lot longer i hope but i wouldn't care if it took up the rest of my teen life no matter how little time that'll be.

Syvelocin
November 18th, 2010, 11:14 AM
Depending of course on what you want from a relationship. A lot of teens these days just seem to want to be in a relationship to just be in a relationship, which I never understood. Pretty much all the relationships I've been in have lasted at least a year, if not more, but I want a relationship to look for someone who I love spending time with, like a best friend. And closer to the adult mark, I started to look for someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

13-18 sounds completely reasonable if you find that certain someone, though rarely do you find someone that early and still have nothing come between you five years later though...

Personally, yes. I definitely could do that. I guess in my case it's a bit different though...

IsabellaJane
November 18th, 2010, 11:40 AM
I could, only if we was both commited to the relationship though
I don't think i could decide who i wanted to spend the rest of my life with at 13 though :/

UnknownError
November 18th, 2010, 04:19 PM
If we both were committed, then yes.
My longest relationship, if you could even call it that, was for about 3 or 4 weeks. :P
I haven't went out with anyone for just over a year though. >.>

Tristin.
November 18th, 2010, 04:23 PM
my longest relationship was a year, broke up in june this year :(

but.... I got asked out earlier so something new could be about to start XD :D :D

Jenna.
November 18th, 2010, 04:30 PM
I definitely could. As long as they're the right person and we have good communication, are honest with and trust each other, I don't see why I wouldn't be able to. (: My longest relationship is going on right now, 2 years and we're both planning on staying together. ♥

Fact
November 18th, 2010, 04:40 PM
I don't see why not.

At first-
Me: 13
Boyfriend: 14

and now...

Me:16
Boyfriend:17

^^

Fiction
November 18th, 2010, 04:44 PM
if you find the right person then i don't see why not. Lots of relationships don't last because of all the hormones and stuff meaning you confuse your emotions, like thinking something is love when it's not. Also there are lots of changes when you are younger and you are not ready to settle down. you may end up going to a uni at the opposite end of the country or something... and then gradually drifting apart.
As for my longest realtionship, it is still going on and we've been together over a year.

ILOVEYOU
November 19th, 2010, 05:39 PM
Yeah.. why not?.. since we don't seek for a reason to break up, then i'll do my best to keep the relationship going. because whenever you notice that one of you is seeking for a reason to break up, then i tell you my friend, your relationship is ruined. give her Space and you'll see how better your relationship will be. and Don't be like jumping from one to another, we're Human, we believe in Love, try to find your love, then you wouldn't Want to lose her, thats where the idea of marriage comes in. :)