Questions

[Tristin.]

iv decided i might be able to help people out :O

if any of you have questions about coming out or being gay/bi, just ask i have experience XD;) :P

[Bath]

How should I come out to my mom about being bisexual? She's open minded but doesn't believe in bisexuality/homosexuality at such a young age. Should I wait on telling her?

[Tristin.]

well, it depends how old are you? and are you 1000000% certain that your bi-sexual as its a pretty hard thing to take back ?

[Bath]

I'm 15. I've been bisexual my whole life. My first crush was on a girl when I was 9 and I didn't understand it at the time. Then I learned what "lesbian" meant, and thought I was a lesbian until I started to like boys too. I've had boyfriends and girlfriends(secretly.) I'm 110% sure I'm bisexual. (:

[Tristin.]

well, im gay and have been my whole life. I first "came out" to my twin brother and at first he was shocked but he accepted actualy helps me when i get down over it (boy firends etc lol) so i recomend coming out to a close friend or sibling first and, one you feel confidant enough come out to your mum. my parents were the 12 person i came out to.

hope this helps, if you need any more info just ask :)
good luck !!!!!
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[Theatheist of doom]

Yay VT spreads the helpfulness and compassion lol :D

[NiallC]

I came out to my best mate and he was very supportive, it helps that we have both been accused of being gay and a lot of people have said if it was going to be one us it's going to be him. He has taken alot of stick since I then came out to everyone and he has supported me ever since. But although we are going through a rocky patch because of his bitch of a girlfriend and stuff I'll always consider him my brother....

[Alyria]

No truly pressing questions except this one which I believe has no answer. I'll ask it though. Someone that's in my class is... exceptionally beautifully. Sure, he has a few minor flaws, but he's, in ever single definition that I can come up with, perfect. Not just physically, but mentally as well. The only problem is that I know he's not gay. Or, 95% sure. And, while he may not even realize it, he's literally like a lifeline to my hometown. If it wasn't for him, I'd force my parents to move far away to attempt to get away from this hell. But he's been there, so I couldn't leave. How do I deal with this? It's all to confusing. I've come to only one understanding - love is confusing.

[Ecxel]

You still helping? Ive got a few questions! :)

[Tristin.]

I came out to my best mate and he was very supportive, it helps that we have both been accused of being gay and a lot of people have said if it was going to be one us it's going to be him. He has taken alot of stick since I then came out to everyone and he has supported me ever since. But although we are going through a rocky patch because of his bitch of a girlfriend and stuff I'll always consider him my brother....

No truly pressing questions except this one which I believe has no answer. I'll ask it though. Someone that's in my class is... exceptionally beautifully. Sure, he has a few minor flaws, but he's, in ever single definition that I can come up with, perfect. Not just physically, but mentally as well. The only problem is that I know he's not gay. Or, 95% sure. And, while he may not even realize it, he's literally like a lifeline to my hometown. If it wasn't for him, I'd force my parents to move far away to attempt to get away from this hell. But he's been there, so I couldn't leave. How do I deal with this? It's all to confusing. I've come to only one understanding - love is confusing.

You still helping? Ive got a few questions! :)

Sorry for the overly late reply, but i have technically in fact left VT.
However, i will answer these as it is better late than never :)

NiallC: It is brilliant that you have found someone to talk to and help you with your coming out process! x

Alyria: Love is very confusing and unfortunately there is no generic way to deal with it. In your case however i think it would be best to try and move on. However you could try and talk to him, find out if he is or is not, that may help you x

Adamecxel: No, unfortunately i'm no longer helping as i have left VT apart from the odd visit to close things up and say the odd hello. However, there will be loads of others here on VT who can help you :) best of luck! xx