Looked at another guy in LR

[Teen586]

I would like to first say that I am not gay and do not want to be. I glanced over at a guy who is pretty popular in the locker room today, he had just dropped his towel I was about to look down when he looked over in my direction, our eyes met and then a second or so later I just look in a different direction. He didn't glare or anything just a passive expression on both of our faces, I wanted to look down because him and me and a few others are the only people (freshman) who take showers naked, it is kind of a new thing for all of us. But ya I just wanted to see his dick and compare it to what mine looks like erect or not... I've seen porn and you don't exacly see kids our age (14) all over the internet so I wanted to see a non adult one.

How do I go about looking wherever I want without someone looking at me and thinking I'm gay and going behind my back and telling people? We all know each other so I was thinking today that we don't exacly joke around about stuff like that and since we all know each other in one way or another isn't it ok to glance down at someone's penis as long as you don't stare? I know I didn't make him uncomfortable or anything and I don't want to either but I want to be able to look to and make it a casual thing, everyone must anyways right? I guess my real question is would it be an awful thing to look at his penis as long as I don't make a habit of it and stare and as long as he doesn't seem uncomfortable with it, especially enough to go tell other people?

[Joshuaharris]

It's a game of patience. You are in the locker room a lot right? Just do what you normally do and keep your eyes open. You didn't have a chance today but eventually you will.

[Ender]

First off, I'd like to mention it's normal to feel curious. Just be innocent, and "accidentally" turn your head a few ways when rinsing or whatever.

[Teen586]

thanks everyone this is really helpful keep em coming tho!

[lightkun]

Careful, this might get locked...

I'm not going to tell you how or anything, but I will tell you that from my experience, penis size at this age is all over the place.

[Royredhot]

Depending on how good of friends you are you might just ask if he wants to compare sizes. Or you could try just glancing down for a second then just go about your business like it was a normal thing.

[SamB]

It is 100% normal to be curious during puberty and you do not need to worry about it, it does not make you gay

[Rashard]

Its normal bro ur just curios about somethings

[Philleeep]

just look when u get a chance dont make it obvious

[JJSSHH]

Just drop something when ur around a guys and peak

[Wisconsin]

its completely normal...its kinda like a competition....ur judging who wins the "size" part of the competition so u look to see if hes bigger than you or if ur bigger than him.....and as for going about trying to get a peek...just walk around and when hes not looking just take a quick glance

[max123]

its normal just drop a can of deodrant so it rolls over to someone when they are naked so you can get a peek without getting called gay

[boosterboy]

completely normal, try and sneak a look when he's not looking

[MisterAndrews]

If you want him to remain comfortable, then don't do what someone suggested and "Drop something in front of him". People will see that you did it on purpose.

It's usual to want to look, so just glance when you have the chance. In actual fact, he's most probably glancing at other people too.

[JonTyler]

If you want him to remain comfortable, then don't do what someone suggested and "Drop something in front of him". People will see that you did it on purpose.

It's usual to want to look, so just glance when you have the chance. In actual fact, he's most probably glancing at other people too.

I agree with this. If you "drop" something and go down to the floor wouldn't it bring more attention on you?

[donidoni111]

Normal to want to look. Dont be obvious but chances are they are looking too. Human nature..not sexual.. FOR MOST ??

[jockboy14]

Def don't be obvious. Don't like strain or anything to see something. Just casually try and see somethin out of your peripheral vision then you can turn your head.