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bellais
November 16th, 2010, 04:11 AM
so i gym class these a guy i know well we hooked up once any ways he always touches my chest and my upper thigh. and once we were in storage room (alone) and he put his hand in my pants and tried to finger me i slaped him and he said "i know you like hard" and well yeah. i told my boy friend who is very protective and now hes planning to kick his ass

georgiamay
November 16th, 2010, 01:04 PM
tell your boyfriend not to kick his arse, violence won't solve anything.

If you told him that you didn't want him to touch you, and you felt uncomfortable when he touched you, then report him. No one has the right to touch you without your permission.

Fact
November 16th, 2010, 01:10 PM
so i gym class these a guy i know well we hooked up once any ways he always touches my chest and my upper thigh. and once we were in storage room (alone) and he put his hand in my pants and tried to finger me i slaped him and he said "i know you like hard" and well yeah. i told my boy friend who is very protective and now hes planning to kick his ass

Why would you be in the storage room alone in the first place?
If he still touches you like this when you've asked him not to and you don't like it then you have every right to report him as Georgia said.

Fiction
November 16th, 2010, 04:50 PM
As the other two have said, if you've warned him and he didn't stop then report him. try to stop your bf from "kicking ass" as georgia said. This will only get him into trouble.

Azunite
November 16th, 2010, 04:55 PM
As a male, I would like to say a few words...
If your boyfriend kicks his ass, things will get worse and he will keep abusing you, this time it will get worse and worse things can happen ...
Or even worse, he could bring few friends with him and beat up your boyfriend

Slapping and reporting would be enough, though you may not need to go far if you think he is a good friend besides his curious side.

Bath
November 16th, 2010, 05:01 PM
As everyone else has said, violence is not the answer. You want to solve the problem, not make it worse and filled with drama. Just stay away from him. If the problem continues somehow, as corny as this sounds, tell.someone.you.trust. & Not somebody who will try and hurt them.

Wings of Despair
November 17th, 2010, 09:48 AM
Hmm..i can tell that you are very confused.You should understand that if you show a guy you like him you should expect anything from him.When he "fingered" you you did not really disapprove.So if he gets hurt it`s on you head.