What should I do?

[AVar15]

There's this girl at school that I really like and I met her through band class. This year some stuff started happening that made me think that she liked me too. So I took the risk and asked her if she liked me and she said yes. She also said that for now we were gonna stay friends because someone already asked her to homecoming and we'll see what happens after that. Well after homecoming she started going out with the person she went with and I'm like what the heck. Later when I asked her about it she said things were confusing, but she still liked me. Her boyfriend is a senior, but her and I are only sophomores. We stopped talking for a while, but then she sent me a message via Facebook saying that she missed me. What should I do?

[IAMWILL]

Okay, that sucks.
She's going out with the senior because he's a senior, and she thinks that makes her "all that." It seems as though she still does like you though, which is good. The best thing for you to do right now is stay friends but flirty. Don't get in to deep because you probably don't want to get in trouble with a senior, but don't be afraid to flirt with her, just not in his presence. She may come around to it and realize her relationship with the senior is meaningless and go for you.
Hint: act very mature around her. Lots of girls are still more mature than boys at this time so she finds a senior (presumably more mature mentally and physically than you) more attractive. If she sees this in you though, you have a better chance at getting with her.

[AVar15]

Okay, that sucks.
She's going out with the senior because he's a senior, and she thinks that makes her "all that." It seems as though she still does like you though, which is good. The best thing for you to do right now is stay friends but flirty. Don't get in to deep because you probably don't want to get in trouble with a senior, but don't be afraid to flirt with her, just not in his presence. She may come around to it and realize her relationship with the senior is meaningless and go for you.
Hint: act very mature around her. Lots of girls are still more mature than boys at this time so she finds a senior (presumably more mature mentally and physically than you) more attractive. If she sees this in you though, you have a better chance at getting with her.

Thanks for the advice, it really helped my outlook on things with her :)

[IAMWILL]

No problem.

[AVar15]

Great, now the problem is I don't know how to flirt :( It's sad yes I know, but I've never had a girlfriend before and I get really nervous around her.

[IAMWILL]

Small talk. Really for teenagers just talking to each other is flirting. Comment on what she wears or how she smells or talk about something you both have in common. If it goes well, youll develop a good relationship to build upon. The best thing you can do is be there for her now, because I smell a breakup with this senior coming.

[IsabellaJane]

Keep your friendship going with her, and when she realises things aren't gunna work out with her boyfriend, you'll be there to support her. Then she'll see that you was always the right guy for her

Hope it goes well for you :)

[Philleeep]

OMG SAME (very similar) THING HAPPENED THAT HAPPENED TO ME. Tell her how you feel and tell her you miss her (if you do) tell her exactly how you feel

[Rashard]

Sounds like she thinks shes all that cuz shes datin a senior but if i were u ill ditch her

[AVar15]

Keep your friendship going with her, and when she realises things aren't gunna work out with her boyfriend, you'll be there to support her. Then she'll see that you was always the right guy for her

Hope it goes well for you :)

Thanks :) Ok, I'll try to talk to her and be friendly, but I get nervous :/

[AVar15]

OMG SAME (very similar) THING HAPPENED THAT HAPPENED TO ME. Tell her how you feel and tell her you miss her (if you do) tell her exactly how you feel

I know how you feel, it's hard for me cause I get nervous talking to her in person so I only talk to her on Facebook. I've been talking to her more recently so hopefully things turn out fine.

[bmxkid313]

when a senior and a sophomore go out it almost never lasts very long when the break up comfort her and make her fell like she is still wanted then ask her out if you fell confident enough

[AVar15]

Soo, I talked to her today :) She came up to me and asked me a question about our honors history class because she was confused(someone was messing with her)and I cleared it up and she said thanks and gave me a thank you hug, but instead of a ur welcome hug I think I gave her a I still like you hug and she noticed cause she said something to herself after we hugged. What should I do?

Things are going pretty good with her, we are still friends, in fact we are talking right now on Facebook. Told her I still liked her, and she knew, my hint aren't as subtle as I thought. Any advice on what I should do to keep it like this?
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[dmeek7]

when you added that "he's a senior" comment, people thought that you added it b/c this girl thinks its kewl to date a senior. I wanted to ask if you meant it that way? b/c i personally think you added that just as extra information. It's not bad at all to be a sophomore girl dating a senior guy. Um, for your latest question:

My answer is: Don't become "friends" with her if you want to be with her. If you get inside the "friend zone" you will NEVER get out. girls don't want a friend in their boyfriend. That's what their girlfriends are for. You have to be less of a friend and more of a guy who she could date. Kinda act like shes not all you think about..

What did she say after you told her you still liked her?