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wills316
November 13th, 2010, 06:53 PM
NOTICE: Don't read this if you're easily creeped out please... I don't want any derogatory comments. Only helpful ones! I already asked on another site but the answers weren't too helpful.

Anyway, last night a very odd thing happened. Before I sleep I usually masturbate unless I'm super tired. I usually do it in my bed but I decided to go for a change and so I did it on the floor. Didn't make a whole load of difference and I don't even know if it's related to what I'm about to say, but I thought I'd mention it just in case.

I had a bit of an odd dream which I won't go into a lot of detail about unless somebody requests it because even I found it a little disturbing. The gist of it, though, is that I met up with this girl from my school and asked her how her ear surgery was (she had some ear problem in real life and had surgery) and she said it went OK. I made a joke about it and it offended her, so she tackled me to the ground somehow and shoved her toes into my mouth while ordering me to suck on them. I apologised and did what she said, but for some reason, I was enjoying it.

Not long after that I woke up and I had an erection. I am aware this is fairly normal for teenage boys (I'm 15 by the way) but I only seem to get it after really sexual dreams and I don't have them that often. Last time I checked, a girl shoving her toes into my mouth wasn't a sexual dream. I know it sounds weird but when I woke up I was sad that the dream wasn't real. Did something happen to my sexuality overnight or something!? :what: I am genuinely worried about it!

I am a bit creeped out by it to be honest, and if you are then please don't have a go at me because I feel the same. But basically, what on earth happened!?

Cudder
November 13th, 2010, 07:18 PM
I'm not creeped out about it. I'm going to try to answer to my best ability. What I'm thinking is that you maybe are attracted to this girl at school. You told her a joke because you were to nervous to have a serious conversation. And the foot in mouth thing. Mabye you have a foot fetish and like feet.

That's the only thing I CSM think of that you would have a dream like this. Oh and I don't think it has a big impact on your sexualality

wills316
November 13th, 2010, 07:55 PM
Foot fetish? What's that? As far as I know I've never had something like that before, is it normal??

nick
November 14th, 2010, 02:57 AM
A foot fetish is where you get turned on by other people's feet and might want to suck their toes. I dont think just one random dream means you've developed a foot fetish and it certainly doesnt change your sexuality.

It could have been a coincidence, a random erection, but you were dreaming about a girl who then tackled you to the ground and presumably got on top of you somehow. That sounds like the sort of dream that would give many guys an erection and so sounds pretty normal to me.

The Red Devil
November 14th, 2010, 06:49 AM
Well I had a dream the other day where my ex tackled me to the ground, except we just made out lol. Perhaps maybe you subconciously have a foot fetish. Personally I find it weird, however it sounds fairly normal, as in I've heard of a lot of people having one. Or else maybe your attracted to this girland have feeling for her. Maybe it just means that you are attracted to strong independant women who can stand up for themselves and arn't like some pathetic barbie doll that expects to be pampered and treated like a princess all the time.

It could be telling you many things, but I don't think it is anything to be worried or ashamed about. I wouldnt go spreading the story around to people you know however, they might think differently.

wills316
November 14th, 2010, 09:49 AM
Thank God for that then, I was hoping it didn't mean my brain hates women or something.

Fact
November 14th, 2010, 09:52 AM
I had a dream about raping someone and enjoying it, doesn't mean that when I wake up I'm a rapist. Same goes for you and your "foot fetish".
You can't control your dreams - they're part of your subconscious. A lot of the time, dreams aren't literal, the fact that she put her toes in your mouth probably means something completely non-literal to what happened.

I wouldn't worry too much about this. It's not weird and it's most likely your subconscious picking up on you having thoughts about this girl, doesn't mean you like her or anything, or maybe it does? You didn't mention much about that.

Anyways, hope this helps you.

Beats
November 14th, 2010, 12:05 PM
Bro, You may have a foot fetish XD
It's totally cool. Alot of people have fetishes.

Fiction
November 14th, 2010, 01:19 PM
I don't see how this had any effect on your sexuality? Unless you are gay? Inw hich case maybe your bi?
If your straight then i don't think it has any effect, except maybe you have a foot fetish! :P